To homeschool or not to homeschool, that is the question! Whether it is nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of playground bullies, or to take up workbooks against the common core and by opposing – teach common sense. Oh to wonder no more, and by making a decision, to say we end the heartache of forever scarring our children by choosing incorrectly. . .
Okay, that Hamlet allusion was probably only amusing me. My students either loved or dreaded Shakespeare units. I always started with a Monty Python-esque British accent and Hamlet’s soliloquy, attempting to inspire them to love the bard.
I was a dedicated public school teacher for 17 years. I hope my students look back and feel I was part of a good argument for sending your children to public school.
Part of me feels like I’m cheating her from the childhood experience of “the first day of school”, making friends, and meeting other adults who might love and nurture her in a different way than I do.
Local pre-registration for next year is already finished. We chose not to enroll her at this time, but I still struggle with the questions of whether homeschooling is the right choice for us, for her.
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- She has recently been labeled as possibly having ADHD. Homeschooling would allow me to build in wiggle time between lessons.
- I can also teach her to deal with her attention issues in a way a classroom teacher wouldn’t be able to in a classroom with 30 other unique children.
- She can learn at her own pace, allowing for remediation or enrichment activities and additional subjects, like Spanish and art that our area school may not have.
- We can schedule piano lessons or doctor appointments during the day, leaving more time for family in the evenings and weekends.
- We can create our own calendar and schedule, which allows us to take breaks when her brothers visit, when her dad has a random day off from the army, or when we want to travel to visit family or friends.
- We can reduce or eliminate bullying.
- We can control her introduction to the adult subjects of the world. I don’t want to shelter her so much as mindfully guide her using our faith to give her the tools to navigate the world.
- I get to watch the world unfold for her. Watching her learning to read for herself has been absolutely magical. Everyday she makes a new discovery, like learning she has a super power.
- She is the center of my attention all day, every day. She doesn’t learn to take turns or be patient with others.
- She misses out on the good memories of making friends, giggling on the playground.
- As her only teacher, she may not learn to respect or deal with other authority.
- As her mom, our relationship is different, she pushes back at structure and discipline with me in a way she wouldn’t at school.
- I have to sit with her during every lesson right now. It is time-consuming and challenging.
- Can she learn to be independent if she spends all day with the safety net of Mom and home? Will she be too attached to me?
- I can’t seek paid employment while homeschooling, which is difficult for our budget.
- Will my attempts to create curriculum be successful and meaningful?
- Will playdates and co-op be enough to socialize her? Will she learn social skills as a primarily only child being homeschooled?
- Will I have the patience and temperament to make homeschooling a fun adventure instead of daily drudgery?
Stepping into this new realm as a homeschooling parent is less terrifying as a teacher, because in some ways I’ve been teaching her since she was born, but it puts so much responsibility on my shoulders for her social and academic success.
Are you a public/private school parent or are you a homeschooling parent? Are you a product of homeschool? Please share your thoughts and ideas for me.
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