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  • Mom, you've crept across that toy littered floor to your child's bedside to watch them sleeping. But do they know all mom did while they were sleeping?
    Godly Parenting

    What Mom did while you were sleeping . . .

    August 22, 2016 /

    If you’re a mom, you’ve crept across a toy littered floor to your child’s bedside to watch your baby sleeping. You’ve smoothed stray locks, wiped warm foreheads, and whispered I love you one more time. Those are savored memories, stowed away treasures. But our kids have no idea. Most of the time, they sleep right through these moments that only we hold. The childhood of my daughter, for whom I waited and waited, is beyond precious to me. And like a wonderful novel, I’m constantly balancing between wanting to savor every page and racing to see how it all turns out. Because someday, she will be an adult and sleeping…

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  • Finding excellent learning websites for kids can be trial and error, so when I find a secret gem, wonderful and worth paying for, I want to share it!
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    A Secret Gem in Learning Websites for Kids

    August 5, 2016 /

    Finding excellent learning websites for kids can be trial and error, so when I find a secret gem, wonderful and worth using, I want to share it! It’s back to school time and parents everywhere are hoping to empower their children to rock this school year. Whether your children do school at home or in a more formal setting, we all want our kids to learn and love to learn, but we don’t always feel qualified or capable to help. Even as a certified high school teacher, educating my own child can be a bit overwhelming. Did I cover all the skills she needs? What if I miss something? Did…

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    March 13, 2020
    I come from the perspective of a student, teacher, former union member, parent, and home educator asking you consider all sides of our educational system.

    Dear Ms. DeVos, Please Handle Education with Care

    February 7, 2017
  • Shut up isn't very nice. We try not to use it in our house, but sometimes it is the only way to get someone's attention. God used it to get mine.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    When is it time to shut up?

    July 30, 2016 /

    Shut up isn’t very nice. We try not to use it in our house, but sometimes it is the only way to get someone’s attention. God used it to get mine. This month has brought me some personal challenges that have broken my heart, left me wracked with sobs wondering if things will ever be okay again. And in my little external processing way, I start trying to use my words to grapple with my tornado emotions and thoughts that keep me awake and make my blood pressure skyrocket. But in this hurt, I can’t even hold onto the words. Nothing is making sense. I feel completely discombobulated. My prayers…

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    April 27, 2017
    Exploring the things I learned about my attitude and spirit when I changed my words.

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    February 4, 2015
    Are you a People Pleaser? I have been. I struggle against striving to please people almost daily. But the struggle has gotten easier since I learned the truth.

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    April 28, 2016
  • Police Officers have always had my respect, but all I see when I heard the news about the Dallas tragedy is my aspiring police officer: our little boy blue.
    Godly Parenting,  Step-parenting

    My Aspiring Police Officer: Little Boy Blue

    July 8, 2016 /

    Police Officers have always been respected in our family, but all I see when I look at the tragic news today about the Dallas tragedy is my aspiring police officer: our little boy blue. We have friends who serve in law enforcement, and I see their sacrifice and service as kindred to my husband’s respected military service. They work terrible hours to serve people who usually aren’t glad to see them. They risk their lives never knowing for sure whom they have pulled over or how “Stop!” is going to be received. They keep our country from dissolving into chaos by ensuring most of us follow the law of the…

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    We love reading together all year, but a few books are so touching and special, they've become part of our family Christmas traditions every year.

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    December 12, 2017
    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    Children must be born with the innate knowledge that whining works and makes us crazy. Teach your toddler to quit whining!

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    April 7, 2016
  • Red, white & blue are the colors of the day. Flags will wave more today on American soil than any other day of the year. And every country music station will be streaming "I'm proud to be an American."
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    The Red, White & Blue

    July 4, 2016 /

    Red, white & blue are the colors of the day. Flags will wave more today on American soil than any other day of the year. And every country music station will be streaming “I’m proud to be an American.” And I am. More so as a military wife because I live the sacrifices we honor on days such as these: Memorial Day, Veterans Day, Flag Day. In fact, my husband won’t see us today. He kissed me a sleepy goodbye at 5 a.m. and will be home tomorrow. We have our share of missed holidays due to his service to our nation. We miss weekends, we miss birthdays, Valentine’s Days…

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