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  • Are you a control freak? I am in a recovery program thanks to Jesus & learning to lose control is messy, but a truly wonderful way to be a wife, mom, woman.
    Army Wife Life,  Faith based living

    Go with the flow: My best tips for losing Control

    April 19, 2016 /

      Are you a bit of a control freak? Do you like to control every.single.thing? I am. Well, I was until I began losing control and life’s so much better. I’m in a control recovery program. It’s called Jesus. I’m learning that a lot of my control issues were really a type of temper tantrum about not wanting to trust God for my future. Go with the flow would never have been used to describe my personality. NEVER. I still need five minutes for deep breaths after a surprise change of plans. I’m learning to embrace changes, but I’ve had a lifetime of practice with my control habit. (Heaven not…

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    The Deployment Balancing Act – Day of the Deployed

    October 26, 2016
    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017
    Check out this week's installment of Ask Away Thursday - one question, LOTS of answers!

    Which job is right for me? Ask Away Thursday

    March 17, 2016
  • Being a Christian mother was all I wanted, but now, sometimes, I find myself chasing my own agenda or earthly rewards, missing the real work God has for me.
    Godly Parenting

    This is the Real Work of a Christian Mother

    April 16, 2016 /

    Being a Christian mother was all I ever wanted, but now that I’m here, sometimes, I fashion myself a writer. I sit on my couch, mug of coffee brewing inspiration inside my head, believing that sharing my tiny words are worth the tedious hours buried behind my computer. (Heaven not Harvard is as a participant in affiliate programs including the Amazon Associates Program. As an affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases.) I sometimes even believe that my writing is the noble work I’m doing with my present days. I sweat ink and bleed commas and stumble my way through learning all this techno blogging rot to share my faith with…

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    Do you need to free yourself from all the Christmas expectations this year? Reclaim joy before December rushes by in a miserable haze of disappointment.

    Free Yourself from all the Christmas Expectations this Year

    December 5, 2017
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014
  • Giveaway!!! Ever felt doubt creep into the corners of your mind? Tried the mental equivalent of plugging your ears? Help My Unbelief can add tools to your faith arsenal.
    Book Reviews,  Faith based living

    Fighting Doubt: A Review of Help My Unbelief and GIVEAWAY

    April 14, 2016 /

    Doubt is not something we freely discuss often. Even mature Christians often feel like we are supposed to skim over the doubts and questions, putting on a brave face until they go away. Want a free copy? Enter the giveaway at the end of this post! Barnabas Piper’s book Help My Unbelief challenges this status quo that DOUBT is a dirty word, instead suggests if we’re honest, doubt is a part of our Christian walk; we have this tension between our faith and flesh that pulls us away from closeness with God at times. Piper offers ways to embrace doubt as a challenge to grow closer to God, build a…

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    May 17, 2020

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    How can you save your marriage when war comes home? It's a journey of patience and grace with a whole lot of Jesus filling in the empty spaces.

    How to Save your Marriage When War Comes Home

    January 28, 2016
  • I found the only baby advice you really need. The advice I wish I'd known before my daughter was born, and still true if your baby is 2, 10, 25, or 45.
    Godly Parenting

    The Only Baby Advice You Really Need

    April 11, 2016 /

    I’ve found the only baby advice you really need. It’s the advice I wish I had known before my daughter was born, something I have to remember daily, and still true if your baby is 2, 10, 25, or 45. So last year, I traveled across the country for my sister’s baby shower. She was expecting a much prayed over, long-hoped for baby, who is now a super adorable 1 year old! Part of her baby shower was that we were asked to share our best baby advice on these cute onesie-shaped cards that my mom placed into an album for her. Talk about pressure – how do you summarize…

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    This tiny tyrant rules my heart, but I need to raise her to be the woman and Godly wife she is meant to be.

    Imagine your tiny tyrant – a Godly wife

    May 2, 2014

    Watch Me, Daddy!

    June 16, 2014
    To homeschool or not to homeschool, that is the question. Stepping into homeschooling was a little scary but this Pro/Con list helped us make our decision. #Homeschool #HomeschoolFamily #ChristianParent #MomLife

    To Homeschool or not to Homeschool

    June 6, 2015
  • Children must be born with the innate knowledge that whining works and makes us crazy. Teach your toddler to quit whining!
    Ask Away Thursday,  Godly Parenting

    How to Teach your Toddler to Quit Whining: Ask Away Thursday

    April 7, 2016 /

    Reader Question: How do I teach my toddler to quit whining? Ugh, I get it! Whining just exasperates me! Children must be born with the ability to whine and the innate knowledge that it grates on mommy nerves. My mother-in-law jokingly suggested giving them everything they want. I know for a fact that was not her strategy with her children or mine. She is a bit more old school and tends to just tell them to knock it off, which can be fairly effective from Grandma, but not so much from mom. But this is an age old problem. And I’m sure my solution isn’t new, but it’s what works…

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