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  • Army Wife Life,  Marriage

    Beautifully Taken for Granted: Building Trust in Marriage

    November 11, 2015 /

    Who WANTS to be taken for granted? You’d probably have thought there was something wrong with me if you had walked into my kitchen two years ago late at night after a long day and found me giggling. I was giggling to myself over a sink full of dirty dishes because after 9 years of marriage, countless hours of diligent sacrifice, my husband finally, beautifully, had taken me for granted. I worked really hard to be taken for granted. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) That sounds really crazy, I know, but the reality is I never saw…

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    Sometimes, military life hurts. I've cried my share of tears. But today, it wasn't my heart that was broken & I needed to help my daughter know where to take her hurts. #MilitaryLife #ArmyWifeLife #PCS #ChristianMom #VeteranWife #ArmyLife #PCSSeason #ChristianBlogger #HisGraceGirls #ChristianParenting #Parenting #militarymom #ArmyBrats

    Helping Your Kids When Military Life Hurts

    August 25, 2019
    Did you know #InternetFriendsDay is a thing? Yeah, me neither, but the internet has created my tribe of people, holding my hand as I walk through life.

    Internet Friends Day

    February 13, 2016

    Marriage Advice I Wish I Had 10 years ago

    November 12, 2016
  • I didn't rescue her, she helped rescue me. She is my starfish & I am hers. This World Adoption Day we soak up our time together, knowing it's just a season.
    Adoption

    World Adoption Day – My Starfish

    November 9, 2015 /

    I always hope that I’m going to have something inspirational ready to post on World or National Adoption Day, but here it is, and I don’t know what to say this year except being an adoptive mom makes me .  .  . a mom, maybe not the same kind of mom as someone else, but the one I was meant to be. Having a biological child was never possible for me, and I’ve grieved that loss. Yet, I realize now, that if I had given birth, I wouldn’t have the daughter I do today. I might not have pursued adoption the way I did. And my daughter is perfect, sometimes…

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    I tried to write a piece reflecting how amazing adoption is, but I've yet to find the words. All I can say is adoption made us a family. Happy Adoption Day!

    Adoption Made Us Family: Adoption Day

    November 19, 2016
    Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014

    Adoption – Getting Started

    November 21, 2014
  • Want to be truly thankful this year? Try going 30 Days with No Complaints. Take this challenge - change your heart, home and perspective. #NoComplaints
    Army Wife Life,  Faith based living

    No Complaints

    November 1, 2015 /

    This morning, God’s plan for my day was not what I was expecting. I was prepared to begin my 2nd Annual 30 Days Without Complaint Challenge with a Sunday full of fellowship and worship, excited for our new pastor, but .  .  . My day started by challenging ‘no complaints’ right away. Instead, I snuggled with a sore-‘froated’, upset-tummy-having-little-girl and got the opportunity to tackle laundry, carpet cleaning, and scrubbing the bathroom. Focusing on no complaints meant biting back discouraging words about starting my morning cleaning up vomit. I took captive the bitter thoughts seeping into my heart over a groggy barfing child, and smiled. 2 Corinthians 10:5b take every…

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    Do you have a Thanksgiving attitude just on the fourth Thursday in November or should thanksgiving be an attitude we have for more than just one day?

    Thanksgiving Attitude – More than a Day

    November 26, 2015
    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017

    Marriage Advice I Wish I Had 10 years ago

    November 12, 2016
  • I don't know what it is like to be deployed. I just know what it is like to say good-bye and be left behind. Day of the Deployed - Heaven Not Harvard
    Army Wife Diary,  Army Wife Life

    Day of the Deployed – Saying Goodbye

    October 26, 2015 /

    Today is Oct. 26 – the 11th annual Day of the Deployed, a day to remember the sacrifices of all the service members deployed around the world. Perhaps, also a day to remember the families left behind as well. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) I don’t know what it is like to be deployed. I only know what it is like to say goodbye and be left behind: the heaviness in my chest, the knot in my stomach, the steely resolve, and the tears hiding behind every smile. Below is my post from the day my husband…

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    The Devastating Agony of the Night Before Deployment

    March 24, 2015
    It's the deployment balancing act - We struggle with trying to fill our days, keeping mindlessly busy, trying to stop the mental cycle of anxiety and stress, holding our collective breath as we wait for our soldiers to come home.

    The Deployment Balancing Act – Day of the Deployed

    October 26, 2016
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    Natalie’s Juice – a fresh take on juice

    October 26, 2015 /

    Between shopping with a 5 year old who thinks she needs to have an opinion on everything I buy (or pass by) and navigating nutritional labels, grocery shopping is more and more challenging these days. I am trying to balance making healthy choices with not allowing a fear of additives and GMOs, etc. to overwhelm me, but it is hard to know what are good choices. Being a Christian parent my faith is part of everything I do, including grocery shop. I want to be a good steward of the body God has given me and teach my daughter to do the same. When I saw a sample table in…

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    Housework is part of how we love and serve our families, but it can feel disastrously overwhelming at times. Use this strategy to tame the laundry monster.

    Taming the Laundry Monster

    February 25, 2015
    Need some last minute ways to make Christmas magic? I realize now, the magic of my childhood Christmases doesn't cost a lot, & even with only a few days, anyone can make this kind of magic.

    Last Minute Ways to Make Christmas Magic

    December 21, 2017
    Looking for cute Thanksgiving Decorations, but not finding much left on the shelves? Don't Stress - Here are some of my favorite ideas & where to find them! 

    Are you looking for cute Thanksgiving Decorations?

    October 29, 2017
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