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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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  • Godly Parenting

    The Best Medicine

    May 18, 2014 /

    If you’ve been reading my blog entries, you may have the impression that I am very serious, which is not the whole truth. I am very serious about being Godly. I take following God’s word very seriously. I seriously want to know what God’s word says about how I should think and live and be, and I seriously want people to know about Jesus, but I LOVE to laugh, which comes in handy as a mom. God gave us the ability to laugh, to be full of joy. He even told us how to heal the wounds of a fallen world. Proverbs 17:22 “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a…

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    God used my daughter to change the way I saw prayer. Through parenting her I finally understood how to pray ceaselessly and do so with joy. #Prayer #ChristianMom #ChristianBlogger #ChristianWoman #Faith #FaithBasedliving #Christian #Parenting

    Understanding How to Pray Ceaselessly as a Mom

    March 12, 2014
    Do you need to free yourself from all the Christmas expectations this year? Reclaim joy before December rushes by in a miserable haze of disappointment.

    Free Yourself from all the Christmas Expectations this Year

    December 5, 2017
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
  • Life is the beautiful result hiding in the mess of our trials and struggles. Trusting God, the Master Weaver, for the beauty He is weaving in me. #TrustGod #FaithoverFear #ChristianFaith #ChristianBlogger
    Adoption,  Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Master Weaver – Trusting God in Chaos

    May 15, 2014 /

    I’ve had lots of messy, hurtful times in my life: my husband’s combat tours, gossiping neighbors, financial struggles, marital tensions, infertility, health crises, times that felt like they were breaking me apart. During those moments that felt like my world was breaking in two, I’ve held tightly to this promise. Romans 8:28 ESV  “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” Because sometimes in the middle of it, I couldn’t see how. I’ve sat in the mess holding my heart in my hands wondering how God could possibly being doing any good. And then…

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    Adoption costs are part of the journey many avoid discussing. Families come to adoption in various ways. This is only our story and experience.

    Adoption – The Cost

    November 26, 2014

    Dear Birthmom, an Honest Letter from my Side of Adoption

    November 22, 2014
    I didn't rescue her, she helped rescue me. She is my starfish & I am hers. This World Adoption Day we soak up our time together, knowing it's just a season.

    World Adoption Day – My Starfish

    November 9, 2015
  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Old Man’s Rubble

    May 13, 2014 /

    Do you ever have a song from your childhood just echoing in your head? I had an old Imperials’ (lyrics here) song that came to mind today. I’m not completely sure I can explain why, but I feel like God put it on my heart. Reviewing the lyrics, thinking about the Biblical truths that surround them, felt like answers to some prayers I had for some dear friends of mine that I was preparing to fellowship with this evening. Take a moment, picture your heart as a home. What does it look like as a home for Jesus? Is it dark, dirty, cobwebs in the corners? When I close my…

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    Do I have to go to church to be a Christian?

    June 8, 2019
    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017
    I make the same resolution every year. But I want to make my BEST New Years Resolution this year. God has convicted me that He wants more OF me not from me.

    My Best New Years Resolution

    January 1, 2016
  • Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014 /

    As a blogger, it can be hard to write about holidays or events on demand. I’ve spent all week trying to approach writing about Mother’s Day. My entire blog is about being a Christian mother, and I covered a lot about becoming a mother in an earlier post, Seriously Harvard? that dealt with Samuel 1, Hannah’s story. Plus, many of my friends are struggling this year with having lost a mother or a child, or never having been a mother in the traditional sense. I understand that pain. Being barren myself, Mother’s Day has been hard for me for a long time. I’ve never even gotten to experience the tiniest…

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    I tried to write a piece reflecting how amazing adoption is, but I've yet to find the words. All I can say is adoption made us a family. Happy Adoption Day!

    Adoption Made Us Family: Adoption Day

    November 19, 2016
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
    Adoption costs are part of the journey many avoid discussing. Families come to adoption in various ways. This is only our story and experience.

    Adoption – The Cost

    November 26, 2014
  • Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.
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    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014 /

    Before we adopted her, I had imagined our daughter in my mind. I’m sure biological parents do this as well. I had no idea what she would look like, but I hoped for my blonde hair, the light blue eyes my husband and I share. I knew she could be another ethnicity or look as different from me as night from day, but I had hoped I’d see myself in her face. Before her, the greatest love I’d ever known were for my tiny niece and nephew in whose faces at only a few weeks, I could see our family traipse across every expression. I didn’t know how it would…

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    Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014
    Adoption marketing? You have to shrink your entire life to sell yourselves as parents to birth parents? DON'T PANIC! Learn how to attract birth parents.

    Adoption Marketing – How to Attract Birth Parents to your Profile

    April 3, 2017
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