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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
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  • Some parenting is hard. Raising a brainiac doesn't have to be. 3 No-brainers to Raise a Brainiac! Heaven Not Harvard shares easy tips to start your child on a path to love learning.
    Homeschool

    My 3 No-brainers to raise a Brainiac!

    September 3, 2015 /

    Raising a brainiac is a bit tongue in cheek, but all parents want to give their children the best start in life possible. And we’ve all wished from time to time that kids came with instructions. From getting them to sleep or eat green beans, all parents have struggled with getting the hang of this parenting thing, but helping them be ready to learn can be easy with these tips. My 3 no-brainers to raise a Brainiac! My daughter is has a sharp memory and insatiable curiosity. While I can’t take credit for her natural gifts, especially since we adopted, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about how we…

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    Homeschooling ADHD kids is possible, not always easy, but I've found simple tips to homeschool kids struggling with ADHD with less frustration & more love.

    How to Make Homeschooling ADHD Kids Possible

    May 24, 2017

    Helpful Advice for a New Homeschool Mom from a Veteran

    March 18, 2020
    Homeschooling is more than just teaching school at home. Even after 17 years teaching public high school, I had so much to learn this first year of homeschooling.

    My Best Lessons from our First Year Homeschooling

    June 24, 2016
  • We can tend the soil, nurture the shoots, but we can't always see the storms looming in the distance. Tomato Plant Children - Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting

    Tomato Plant Children

    June 25, 2015 /

    We eat a lot of tomatoes. I think my husband lives on pico de gallo. I can’t tell you the number of last-minute shopping trips that involve needing a tomato. So, in my infinite wisdom, I, who cannot keep any potted plants alive and do only marginally better with a flower garden, decided we should buy a trellised potted tomato plant last summer so we would have at least a small supply on hand. We carefully picked just the right place for it, watered it diligently, watched excitedly as it bloomed. When the first tomatoes began to grow, my daughter stood over them everyday waiting to pick the first one.…

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    The Muppet Show that debuted last night was a drastic departure from my memories. And left me feeling disappointed for my daughter and in our media culture.

    Muppet Show Misses Mark

    September 23, 2015
    "Life isn't fair!" she sobbed from the backseat, holding her broken balloon. "I wanted to show my daddy!" And in that moment my minivan became a place of ministry to both of us.

    Life isn’t Fair, Broken Balloons, and a Good Father

    October 7, 2016
    How do you handle a young, seeking heart? The faith of a child is magical. We can't create it, if we point them in His direction, God will work in them. It isn't magic, but is supernatural!

    The Magic in the Faith of a Child and how to handle a young, seeking heart

    July 25, 2014
  • Are you wistful at the sight of a swaddle blanket? Delirious for tiny dresses with delightfully adorable shoes? But will having children make you happy?
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    3 Reasons Having Children Will Not Make You Happy

    November 18, 2014 /

    Thinking of having children? Are you wistful at the sight of a swaddle blanket? Hopeful while gazing at bumper guards and high chairs? Delirious for tiny dresses with delightfully adorable matching shoes? We crave these pieces of parenting, but will having children make you happy? Oh, the ache for a baby. It can be something that swallows us whole. After my hysterectomy, I sobbed at my sister’s baby shower. Her children were prayerfully conceived after miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies, and several rounds of fertility treatments. I certainly didn’t begrudge her having the twins, but I mourned the children I would never carry. Fast forward 4 years, and we were preparing…

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    Do you need to free yourself from all the Christmas expectations this year? Reclaim joy before December rushes by in a miserable haze of disappointment.

    Free Yourself from all the Christmas Expectations this Year

    December 5, 2017

    Dear Birthmom, an Honest Letter from my Side of Adoption

    November 22, 2014
    With ads, and discounts galore, I find it hard not to get caught up in shopping this time of year, but . . . is the key to happier kids actually fewer toys?

    Fewer Toys make Happier Kids

    December 18, 2015
  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    More than Conquerors

    October 31, 2014 /

    I started this #30DaysWithoutComplaint challenge with a true desire to let God’s work in my heart flow into all areas of my life, starting with what I say, hoping to then transform how I think, and eventually be able to master what attitude I have. The first couple of days went really well, but I got a little cocky and too busy. I let distractions pull me away from my quiet time with God. And I didn’t have my armor on when life got tough. Ephesians 6:11 ESV “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” When my…

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    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
    Nothing is wasted? Really? God uses all the awful stuff in our lives? Trusting God that nothing is wasted is sometimes more than hard. But it's also so true.

    Nothing is Wasted – How God uses Hard

    January 23, 2015
    Two young women laughing wrapped in a blanket on the beach

    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020
  • Raising children is harder than I'd ever imagined. She has to learn how to live independently & face any challenges. She has to know to always seek the Son.
    Godly Parenting

    Planting Sunflowers: Raising Children to Seek the Son

    September 23, 2014 /

    Raising children is a harder job than I ever imagined. I say goodnight most nights feeling like I barely sputtered across the finish line, often holding onto regrets from the day, all my pretty failures and missed moments dangling from my weary eyelids. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) Somedays, I feel like I’m trying to stand still in the middle of a child-based hurricane. All I know how to do for sure is hold onto the anchor. Hebrews 6:19 ESV / We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul, a hope that enters…

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    Shut up isn't very nice. We try not to use it in our house, but sometimes it is the only way to get someone's attention. God used it to get mine.

    When is it time to shut up?

    July 30, 2016
    God used my daughter to change the way I saw prayer. Through parenting her I finally understood how to pray ceaselessly and do so with joy. #Prayer #ChristianMom #ChristianBlogger #ChristianWoman #Faith #FaithBasedliving #Christian #Parenting

    Understanding How to Pray Ceaselessly as a Mom

    March 12, 2014
    I found the only baby advice you really need. The advice I wish I'd known before my daughter was born, and still true if your baby is 2, 10, 25, or 45.

    The Only Baby Advice You Really Need

    April 11, 2016
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