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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
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  • Do you ever struggle with feeling rejected? Between gossip and judgmental 'friends', we all do from time to time. But what is God's truth?
    Faith based living

    Rejected Rock or Cornerstone

    May 8, 2015 /

    Do you ever feel rejected? I have been really struggling with rejection the past few weeks: gossip, slander, unkind messages, ignored phone calls. Praying and working through this issue, I’ve realized feeling rejected has colored on the canvas of my entire life (but I’m in good company). I remember being happy and confident as a child. Then the first day of kindergarten, I somehow didn’t fit. I was called cruel names. No one asked me to play during recess. A cruel boy ruined my new ‘cowboy’ boots in second grade when I left them in the coat room. I was rejected and bullied mercilessly throughout elementary and middle school. Sophomore…

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    How to share the truth about abortion in a way that makes people think deeply about the ideas and worldview they hold, while lovingly sharing Christ.

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    February 16, 2019
    "Life isn't fair!" she sobbed from the backseat, holding her broken balloon. "I wanted to show my daddy!" And in that moment my minivan became a place of ministry to both of us.

    Life isn’t Fair, Broken Balloons, and a Good Father

    October 7, 2016
    Vacations end. We come crashing into reality. What do we do with all that stress?

    Crashing into Reality

    July 27, 2015
  • How do you handle a young, seeking heart? The faith of a child is magical. We can't create it, if we point them in His direction, God will work in them. It isn't magic, but is supernatural!
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Magic in the Faith of a Child and how to handle a young, seeking heart

    July 25, 2014 /

    The faith of a child is magical. In my own child, I’ve seen clarity of understanding and richness of devotion that was simply beyond human explanation. Her faith is so incredibly rich, it has encouraged mine in return. While we cannot take credit, if we point them in His direction, God does truly work in them in ways we cannot understand. If only we all had such faith. I know it isn’t magic, but it is supernatural. I realized the incredible beauty in the sweet faith of a child as I watched my daughter developing her own faith as a very young child. But the magical part is how God…

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    Haircut Failure

    November 5, 2014
    Should Christians be justifying the use of coarse language? Can Christians swear?

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    July 20, 2015
    Sacrificial giving is a lost art in our #blessed culture. Too often, we'll give from the overflow of our closets rather than of our hearts. We can give better.

    The Importance of the Lost Art of Sacrificial Giving

    December 11, 2017
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    The Best Medicine

    May 18, 2014 /

    If you’ve been reading my blog entries, you may have the impression that I am very serious, which is not the whole truth. I am very serious about being Godly. I take following God’s word very seriously. I seriously want to know what God’s word says about how I should think and live and be, and I seriously want people to know about Jesus, but I LOVE to laugh, which comes in handy as a mom. God gave us the ability to laugh, to be full of joy. He even told us how to heal the wounds of a fallen world. Proverbs 17:22 “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a…

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    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    How do we make the Bible kid-friendly so it becomes central in the lives of our children and home in a meaningful way that brings scriptures to life?

    Easy Ways to Make the Bible Kid Friendly

    May 12, 2016

    Why I Disappointed my Daughter for Christmas

    December 30, 2015
  • Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014 /

    As a blogger, it can be hard to write about holidays or events on demand. I’ve spent all week trying to approach writing about Mother’s Day. My entire blog is about being a Christian mother, and I covered a lot about becoming a mother in an earlier post, Seriously Harvard? that dealt with Samuel 1, Hannah’s story. Plus, many of my friends are struggling this year with having lost a mother or a child, or never having been a mother in the traditional sense. I understand that pain. Being barren myself, Mother’s Day has been hard for me for a long time. I’ve never even gotten to experience the tiniest…

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    I tried to write a piece reflecting how amazing adoption is, but I've yet to find the words. All I can say is adoption made us a family. Happy Adoption Day!

    Adoption Made Us Family: Adoption Day

    November 19, 2016
    Supporting friends caring for a premature baby can be such a Godsend during an already difficult time. Here are some great suggestions how you can help.

    Ways You Can Support a Family with a Premature Baby

    November 17, 2017
    Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.

    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014
  • Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014 /

    Before we adopted her, I had imagined our daughter in my mind. I’m sure biological parents do this as well. I had no idea what she would look like, but I hoped for my blonde hair, the light blue eyes my husband and I share. I knew she could be another ethnicity or look as different from me as night from day, but I had hoped I’d see myself in her face. Before her, the greatest love I’d ever known were for my tiny niece and nephew in whose faces at only a few weeks, I could see our family traipse across every expression. I didn’t know how it would…

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    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

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    March 27, 2014
    Life is the beautiful result hiding in the mess of our trials and struggles. Trusting God, the Master Weaver, for the beauty He is weaving in me. #TrustGod #FaithoverFear #ChristianFaith #ChristianBlogger

    Master Weaver – Trusting God in Chaos

    May 15, 2014
    Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014
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