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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
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  • Do you ever struggle with feeling rejected? Between gossip and judgmental 'friends', we all do from time to time. But what is God's truth?
    Faith based living

    Rejected Rock or Cornerstone

    May 8, 2015 /

    Do you ever feel rejected? I have been really struggling with rejection the past few weeks: gossip, slander, unkind messages, ignored phone calls. Praying and working through this issue, I’ve realized feeling rejected has colored on the canvas of my entire life (but I’m in good company). I remember being happy and confident as a child. Then the first day of kindergarten, I somehow didn’t fit. I was called cruel names. No one asked me to play during recess. A cruel boy ruined my new ‘cowboy’ boots in second grade when I left them in the coat room. I was rejected and bullied mercilessly throughout elementary and middle school. Sophomore…

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    How do we make the Bible kid-friendly so it becomes central in the lives of our children and home in a meaningful way that brings scriptures to life?

    Easy Ways to Make the Bible Kid Friendly

    May 12, 2016
    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017

    Don’t Waste Your Wait! You might have a Divine Appointment

    April 27, 2017
  • How do you handle a young, seeking heart? The faith of a child is magical. We can't create it, if we point them in His direction, God will work in them. It isn't magic, but is supernatural!
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Magic in the Faith of a Child and how to handle a young, seeking heart

    July 25, 2014 /

    The faith of a child is magical. In my own child, I’ve seen clarity of understanding and richness of devotion that was simply beyond human explanation. Her faith is so incredibly rich, it has encouraged mine in return. While we cannot take credit, if we point them in His direction, God does truly work in them in ways we cannot understand. If only we all had such faith. I know it isn’t magic, but it is supernatural. I realized the incredible beauty in the sweet faith of a child as I watched my daughter developing her own faith as a very young child. But the magical part is how God…

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    30 Days Without Complaint 48 hours: Be a Light in the World

    October 24, 2014
    My father's life and personality has been my strongest influence. I find joy and sorrow in every visit as I sit surrounded by the bones of my father's life.

    Joy and Sorrow: the Bones of My Father’s Life

    April 26, 2016
    Being saturated in the word is necessary for every Christian who wants to truly know God and doesn't want to mistake almost right for real truth. #ChristianLiving #ChristianWoman #SheBlogs #Blogger #FaithBasedLiving #Christians #Bible

    Should I Read the Bible? What Christians Should Know

    May 16, 2020
  • Godly Parenting

    The Best Medicine

    May 18, 2014 /

    If you’ve been reading my blog entries, you may have the impression that I am very serious, which is not the whole truth. I am very serious about being Godly. I take following God’s word very seriously. I seriously want to know what God’s word says about how I should think and live and be, and I seriously want people to know about Jesus, but I LOVE to laugh, which comes in handy as a mom. God gave us the ability to laugh, to be full of joy. He even told us how to heal the wounds of a fallen world. Proverbs 17:22 “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a…

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    Let Him be Her Dad

    June 21, 2015
    Turning 5 is one of the hardest birthday milestones for mommas as much as a celebration for our children. Read my touching letter about watching her turn 5.

    The Last Night You Were 4: Birthday Milestones

    May 19, 2015
    Can 1 Bible verse help me be a better, more consistent parent? Can being firm actually be more loving? God's love letter answers me in unexpected ways.

    1 Bible verse to be a Better, More Consistent Parent

    March 16, 2016
  • Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014 /

    As a blogger, it can be hard to write about holidays or events on demand. I’ve spent all week trying to approach writing about Mother’s Day. My entire blog is about being a Christian mother, and I covered a lot about becoming a mother in an earlier post, Seriously Harvard? that dealt with Samuel 1, Hannah’s story. Plus, many of my friends are struggling this year with having lost a mother or a child, or never having been a mother in the traditional sense. I understand that pain. Being barren myself, Mother’s Day has been hard for me for a long time. I’ve never even gotten to experience the tiniest…

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    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
    I didn't rescue her, she helped rescue me. She is my starfish & I am hers. This World Adoption Day we soak up our time together, knowing it's just a season.

    World Adoption Day – My Starfish

    November 9, 2015

    Dear Birthmom, an Honest Letter from my Side of Adoption

    November 22, 2014
  • Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014 /

    Before we adopted her, I had imagined our daughter in my mind. I’m sure biological parents do this as well. I had no idea what she would look like, but I hoped for my blonde hair, the light blue eyes my husband and I share. I knew she could be another ethnicity or look as different from me as night from day, but I had hoped I’d see myself in her face. Before her, the greatest love I’d ever known were for my tiny niece and nephew in whose faces at only a few weeks, I could see our family traipse across every expression. I didn’t know how it would…

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    May 11, 2014

    Dear Birthmom, an Honest Letter from my Side of Adoption

    November 22, 2014
    Adoption costs are part of the journey many avoid discussing. Families come to adoption in various ways. This is only our story and experience.

    Adoption – The Cost

    November 26, 2014
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