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  • Do you ever struggle with feeling rejected? Between gossip and judgmental 'friends', we all do from time to time. But what is God's truth?
    Faith based living

    Rejected Rock or Cornerstone

    May 8, 2015 /

    Do you ever feel rejected? I have been really struggling with rejection the past few weeks: gossip, slander, unkind messages, ignored phone calls. Praying and working through this issue, I’ve realized feeling rejected has colored on the canvas of my entire life (but I’m in good company). I remember being happy and confident as a child. Then the first day of kindergarten, I somehow didn’t fit. I was called cruel names. No one asked me to play during recess. A cruel boy ruined my new ‘cowboy’ boots in second grade when I left them in the coat room. I was rejected and bullied mercilessly throughout elementary and middle school. Sophomore…

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    Giveaway!!! Ever felt doubt creep into the corners of your mind? Tried the mental equivalent of plugging your ears? Help My Unbelief can add tools to your faith arsenal.

    Fighting Doubt: A Review of Help My Unbelief and GIVEAWAY

    April 14, 2016
    Growing up, only Catholics celebrated Lent, but I've grown to embrace the season. This year I'm giving up something bizarre to be a better mom and closer to God

    The Bizarre Thing I’m Giving Up for Lent that will Make Me a Better Mom

    March 1, 2017
    Pointing fingers never lead me to the right answers. Only love did that. Heaven Not Harvard

    Pointing Fingers

    June 27, 2015
  • How do you handle a young, seeking heart? The faith of a child is magical. We can't create it, if we point them in His direction, God will work in them. It isn't magic, but is supernatural!
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Magic in the Faith of a Child and how to handle a young, seeking heart

    July 25, 2014 /

    The faith of a child is magical. In my own child, I’ve seen clarity of understanding and richness of devotion that was simply beyond human explanation. Her faith is so incredibly rich, it has encouraged mine in return. While we cannot take credit, if we point them in His direction, God does truly work in them in ways we cannot understand. If only we all had such faith. I know it isn’t magic, but it is supernatural. I realized the incredible beauty in the sweet faith of a child as I watched my daughter developing her own faith as a very young child. But the magical part is how God…

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    Haircut Failure

    November 5, 2014
    Are you a control freak? I am in a recovery program thanks to Jesus & learning to lose control is messy, but a truly wonderful way to be a wife, mom, woman.

    Go with the flow: My best tips for losing Control

    April 19, 2016
    Should Protestants participate in Lent? It's Fat Tuesday & people are deciding what to give up & debating about participating. Maybe we're missing the point?

    Should Protestants Participate in Lent?

    February 13, 2018
  • Godly Parenting

    The Best Medicine

    May 18, 2014 /

    If you’ve been reading my blog entries, you may have the impression that I am very serious, which is not the whole truth. I am very serious about being Godly. I take following God’s word very seriously. I seriously want to know what God’s word says about how I should think and live and be, and I seriously want people to know about Jesus, but I LOVE to laugh, which comes in handy as a mom. God gave us the ability to laugh, to be full of joy. He even told us how to heal the wounds of a fallen world. Proverbs 17:22 “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a…

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    Are you a bad mommy?

    Bad Mommy?

    April 6, 2015
    Growing up, only Catholics celebrated Lent, but I've grown to embrace the season. This year I'm giving up something bizarre to be a better mom and closer to God

    The Bizarre Thing I’m Giving Up for Lent that will Make Me a Better Mom

    March 1, 2017
    Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014
  • Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014 /

    As a blogger, it can be hard to write about holidays or events on demand. I’ve spent all week trying to approach writing about Mother’s Day. My entire blog is about being a Christian mother, and I covered a lot about becoming a mother in an earlier post, Seriously Harvard? that dealt with Samuel 1, Hannah’s story. Plus, many of my friends are struggling this year with having lost a mother or a child, or never having been a mother in the traditional sense. I understand that pain. Being barren myself, Mother’s Day has been hard for me for a long time. I’ve never even gotten to experience the tiniest…

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    I didn't rescue her, she helped rescue me. She is my starfish & I am hers. This World Adoption Day we soak up our time together, knowing it's just a season.

    World Adoption Day – My Starfish

    November 9, 2015
    Adoption marketing? You have to shrink your entire life to sell yourselves as parents to birth parents? DON'T PANIC! Learn how to attract birth parents.

    Adoption Marketing – How to Attract Birth Parents to your Profile

    April 3, 2017
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
  • Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.
    Adoption,  Godly Parenting

    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014 /

    Before we adopted her, I had imagined our daughter in my mind. I’m sure biological parents do this as well. I had no idea what she would look like, but I hoped for my blonde hair, the light blue eyes my husband and I share. I knew she could be another ethnicity or look as different from me as night from day, but I had hoped I’d see myself in her face. Before her, the greatest love I’d ever known were for my tiny niece and nephew in whose faces at only a few weeks, I could see our family traipse across every expression. I didn’t know how it would…

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    Life is the beautiful result hiding in the mess of our trials and struggles. Trusting God, the Master Weaver, for the beauty He is weaving in me. #TrustGod #FaithoverFear #ChristianFaith #ChristianBlogger

    Master Weaver – Trusting God in Chaos

    May 15, 2014
    Adoption marketing? You have to shrink your entire life to sell yourselves as parents to birth parents? DON'T PANIC! Learn how to attract birth parents.

    Adoption Marketing – How to Attract Birth Parents to your Profile

    April 3, 2017
    Mother's Day is full of perfect images, but we're imperfect and that's how God's plan works best.

    Mother’s Day 2014

    May 11, 2014
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