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  • Has your child ever been destructive? How do you handle the chaos with Christ in the middle - Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting

    Welcome to the Club

    June 10, 2015 /

    It’s been just about a year since this happened. I still can’t believe she did that! I don’t even notice the marks on the bed anymore. I am forever grateful that I was able to handle this act of destruction in a loving way. Our relationship would have been more damaged than the bed had I not.

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    A Father’s Day Love Letter to My Husband

    June 18, 2020
    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    Kite Girls - a letter to my pre-Tween daughter about watching her grow up.

    Kite Girls – a letter to my pre-Tween Daughter

    June 10, 2017
  • To homeschool or not to homeschool, that is the question. Stepping into homeschooling was a little scary but this Pro/Con list helped us make our decision. #Homeschool #HomeschoolFamily #ChristianParent #MomLife
    Godly Parenting,  Homeschool

    To Homeschool or not to Homeschool

    June 6, 2015 /

    To homeschool or not to homeschool, that is the question! Whether it is nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of playground bullies, or to take up workbooks against the common core and by opposing – teach common sense. Oh to wonder no more, and by making a decision, to say we end the heartache of forever scarring our children by choosing incorrectly. . . Okay, that Hamlet allusion was probably only amusing me. My students either loved or dreaded Shakespeare units. I always started with a Monty Python-esque British accent and Hamlet’s soliloquy, attempting to inspire them to love the bard. As a dedicated public school teacher for 17…

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    A Father’s Day Love Letter to My Husband

    June 18, 2020
    Can 1 Bible verse help me be a better, more consistent parent? Can being firm actually be more loving? God's love letter answers me in unexpected ways.

    1 Bible verse to be a Better, More Consistent Parent

    March 16, 2016
    Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015
  • Godly Parenting

    Purposefully Practical #1

    August 13, 2014 /

    I am trying to be honestly transparent in my posts, making sure every word is Godly and Biblical. But as I have been working on my parenting, I realized that a lesson about anger and temper is a wonderful tool to help our walk become more Godly; however, some practical tips may be more helpful at times. Like when your child is smearing her somehow naked body with soap in front of the sink when all you asked was for her to wash her hands. . . those are the moments I need real answers about how to parent without getting angry. I wrote about Temper Tantrums just a couple…

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    My temper tantrums? As parents, we don't often think about our tantrums, but I've grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter.

    Why Should You Stop Throwing Temper Tantrums

    July 28, 2014
    Being a Christian mother was all I wanted, but now, sometimes, I find myself chasing my own agenda or earthly rewards, missing the real work God has for me.

    This is the Real Work of a Christian Mother

    April 16, 2016
    Mom, you've crept across that toy littered floor to your child's bedside to watch them sleeping. But do they know all mom did while they were sleeping?

    What Mom did while you were sleeping . . .

    August 22, 2016
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    It isn’t the rule that matters

    June 18, 2014 /

    Today, my daughter needed to tell me something while I was in the bathroom. We’ve instituted a rule that if the door to the bathroom is closed, she is to knock before entering and/or wait, unless she has an emergency or something is really important. She’s four, so we give her some latitude with what she considers important (i.e. her brother holding a toad in the living room), but today she by-passed three closed doors to get to me. Opening all of them without knocking. So far she has only done this with me, but the rule is partially in place to avoid her walking in on her father or…

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    More than Conquerors

    October 31, 2014
    Shut up isn't very nice. We try not to use it in our house, but sometimes it is the only way to get someone's attention. God used it to get mine.

    When is it time to shut up?

    July 30, 2016
    This tiny tyrant rules my heart, but I need to raise her to be the woman and Godly wife she is meant to be.

    Imagine your tiny tyrant – a wife

    August 18, 2014
  • It finally happened. I've officially joined the club of "mmm, she's awfully quiet in there . . . WHAT DID YOU DO?" moms. Now I had to decide how to discipline.
    Godly Parenting

    Welcome to the Club

    June 14, 2014 /

    It finally happened. I’ve officially joined the club of “mmm, she’s awfully quiet in there . . . WHAT DID YOU DO?” moms. Now I had to decide how to discipline. My mom joined the club when I was two and covered my crying sister with talcum powder, then made tiny powder clouds all over the upstairs of our house. My parents never got all the powder out of the deeply grooved tile floor and still blame me for my sister’s asthma. It is my earliest memory. I’ve actively avoided joining this club. We read Olivia as a cautionary tale. I hide ALL the Sharpies. All to no avail. I’m…

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    To homeschool or not to homeschool, that is the question. Stepping into homeschooling was a little scary but this Pro/Con list helped us make our decision. #Homeschool #HomeschoolFamily #ChristianParent #MomLife

    To Homeschool or not to Homeschool

    June 6, 2015

    Watch Me, Daddy!

    June 16, 2014
    Being a peaceful parent is hard, especially when you're overwhelmed. But it's possible with these tips, when we seek God's face & search our hearts. #PeacefulParent #Parenting #ChristianParent #MomLife #ChristianBlogger #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman

    How to Be a Peaceful Parent When You’re Overwhelmed

    April 27, 2020
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