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  • Comparison is insidious when we're comparing our spiritual walks. We must run the race set before us. Not compare our beginning with another's finish line.
    Faith based living

    Quit Comparing: Running The Race Set Before Us

    August 2, 2014 /

    Comparison is a sin we all struggle with, but it’s especially insidious when we’re comparing our spiritual walk to the journey of someone else. We need to run the race God has set before us. Not compare our beginning to another’s finish line. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) A few years ago, I was talking with a young wife in our church, discussing the amazing witness of another woman we both admire. She is a beacon of light, hope, love and faith to all who meet her. She is an on her knees, give it all to…

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    After years of tremendous division, we need Thanksgiving more than ever & the simple words of the hymn We Gather Together remind us why it's important.

    We Gather Together – Thanksgiving and Fellowship

    November 24, 2016

    Do you Dare to Really Know Jesus?

    July 9, 2019
    Rape left a jagged wound on my life, but God has reminded me how He has redeemed my darkest story and continues to use it to reach into the lives of others.

    What Rape Did to My Life

    June 10, 2016
  • My temper tantrums? As parents, we don't often think about our tantrums, but I've grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter.
    Godly Parenting

    Why Should You Stop Throwing Temper Tantrums

    July 28, 2014 /

    Why should I stop throwing temper tantrums? As parents, those generally aren’t the tantrums we think about. But over the past few years, I have grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter. And one verse today just wrecked me. And I want to come to you from that place right now: not a place of having conquered, but still conquering, sometimes still failing. But I see God’s work in my heart as I grow more and more. My temper tantrums were damaging my family. Yours are too. God has called us to control our temper tantrums now. I’ve been trying to rewrite this post for days, but…

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    Do you need to free yourself from all the Christmas expectations this year? Reclaim joy before December rushes by in a miserable haze of disappointment.

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    December 5, 2017
    Are you a bad mommy?

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    Adoption – The Paperwork Mountain

    November 24, 2014
  • How do you handle a young, seeking heart? The faith of a child is magical. We can't create it, if we point them in His direction, God will work in them. It isn't magic, but is supernatural!
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Magic in the Faith of a Child and how to handle a young, seeking heart

    July 25, 2014 /

    The faith of a child is magical. In my own child, I’ve seen clarity of understanding and richness of devotion that was simply beyond human explanation. Her faith is so incredibly rich, it has encouraged mine in return. While we cannot take credit, if we point them in His direction, God does truly work in them in ways we cannot understand. If only we all had such faith. I know it isn’t magic, but it is supernatural. I realized the incredible beauty in the sweet faith of a child as I watched my daughter developing her own faith as a very young child. But the magical part is how God…

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    Check out this week's installment of Ask Away Thursday - one question, LOTS of answers!

    Which job is right for me? Ask Away Thursday

    March 17, 2016

    A Change in Perspective

    November 28, 2014
    Comparison is insidious when we're comparing our spiritual walks. We must run the race set before us. Not compare our beginning with another's finish line.

    Quit Comparing: Running The Race Set Before Us

    August 2, 2014
  • Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014 /

    A science experiment made God’s love real to me at my daughter’s fourth birthday party in an object lesson I never forgot. My daughter had a science themed birthday party when she turned four. I was searching for a cute gender neutral party theme, and thought science experiments would be something different and extra fun. All the kids wore labs coats and colorful safety glasses. They blew touchable bubbles from test tubes, and we performed several easy experiments. We covered the lawn with Mentos and Diet Coke, the kitchen with vinegar and baking soda. The party was a blast. One of everyone’s favorites was the packing peanuts experiment. I took…

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    Are you good at handling rejection? What should we do when people reject us because of our beliefs and values as Christians? Embrace the Butterfly Effect! #ChristianWoman #Faith #ChristianLiving #HandlingRejection

    The Butterfly Effect: Handling Rejection as a Christian

    August 25, 2014
    My father's life and personality has been my strongest influence. I find joy and sorrow in every visit as I sit surrounded by the bones of my father's life.

    Joy and Sorrow: the Bones of My Father’s Life

    April 26, 2016
    Feeling a little lost, even abandoned by God in a tough season? I've been struggling with it, but a fire gave me eyes to see purpose in the Refiner's Fire.

    How a Forest Fire Reminded Me of the Refiner’s Fire

    April 21, 2017
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    Swimming Lessons

    July 14, 2014 /

    “Mommy is right here. You know I won’t let you get hurt, right?” “Right . . .” Tiny arm wraps around my neck, clutching me in a death grip. “You know that I will be here the whole time, right?” “Right . . .” Little fingers clutch at my hair. “You’re going to have to trust me.” “But I don’t trust you!” she wailed at a paint peeling decibel. I’m sure the neighbors were quite certain I was committing various acts of torture instead of just trying to get my child to float in the pool with her life jacket on. This is the child I have doted on since…

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    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    Do you need a fresh start this new year? I know I do. But we can't control what will come in the next twelve months, only how we react to it. #Faith #NewYears #Resolution #FreshStart #ChristianLiving #FaithBasedLiving #ChristianWoman

    Have a Fresh Start this New Year

    December 20, 2019
    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017
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