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  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    More than Conquerors

    October 31, 2014 /

    I started this #30DaysWithoutComplaint challenge with a true desire to let God’s work in my heart flow into all areas of my life, starting with what I say, hoping to then transform how I think, and eventually be able to master what attitude I have. The first couple of days went really well, but I got a little cocky and too busy. I let distractions pull me away from my quiet time with God. And I didn’t have my armor on when life got tough. Ephesians 6:11 ESV “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” When my…

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    May 27, 2014
    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017

    A Change in Perspective

    November 28, 2014
  • Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014 /

    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me! I started taking this challenge in 2014. After considering what constitutes complaining, I decided that I wanted to eliminate all of it from my attitude, truly find contentment no matter my circumstance. (Heaven not Harvard is as a participant in affiliate programs including the Amazon Associates Program. As an affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases.) The dictionary definition of complain reads, “to say or write that you are unhappy, sick, uncomfortable, etc., or that you do not like something: to say something that expresses annoyance or unhappiness.”…

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    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020
    Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015
    Exploring the things I learned about my attitude and spirit when I changed my words.

    What I Learned When I Stopped Complaining

    February 4, 2015
  • My perspective on homemaking has changed over the past few years as I've made my heart Christ's home. What I had always imagined wasn't what God wanted at all.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Revisited: My Perspective on Homemaking and Tiffany Lamps

    October 15, 2014 /

    My perspective on homemaking has really changed in recent years as I’ve worked harder to make my heart a home for Christ. What I had always imagined wasn’t what God wanted at all. (Heaven not Harvard is as a participant in affiliate programs including the Amazon Associates Program. As an affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases.) I used to obsessively watch HGTV and dream of my perfect space. But once I had my dream home, I’ve realized that God isn’t interested in how I decorate it as much as he wants to be the master of how I live in it. I used to imagine my future home once I…

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    The Muppet Show that debuted last night was a drastic departure from my memories. And left me feeling disappointed for my daughter and in our media culture.

    Muppet Show Misses Mark

    September 23, 2015
    The Fifty Shades series isAs a Christian woman, I shouldn't have to say anything about not to reading or watching them, but as a rape victim and a mother, I felt I need to.

    A Rape Victim’s Problem with Fifty Shades and the like

    February 23, 2017

    A Change in Perspective

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  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Stepping-Stones

    September 29, 2014 /

    Yesterday, as we were leaving church, I stopped to chat with our youth pastor. I asked him how he is feeling about getting ready to be a first time daddy. He laughed nervously and said, “OK, but ask me again in a few months.” I wanted to tell him it will be OK, that you can plan, but you can’t really be prepared for how a baby changes life. I tried to explain, but I couldn’t find the words to truly express what a magical journey parenthood is. God carefully crafted parenthood, every step. He planned how children grow with how we learn. They start off pretty simple: feed, burp,…

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    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017
    Submissive is a dirty word in a culture scared to submit. We fight individuality and our rights, but we'd rather let fear control us than boldly submit. #ChristianMarriage #ChristianWoman #FaithBasedLiving #RadicalWife

    Being Boldly Submissive in a Culture Scared to Submit

    March 8, 2016
    Do you need a fresh start this new year? I know I do. But we can't control what will come in the next twelve months, only how we react to it. #Faith #NewYears #Resolution #FreshStart #ChristianLiving #FaithBasedLiving #ChristianWoman

    Have a Fresh Start this New Year

    December 20, 2019
  • Raising children is harder than I'd ever imagined. She has to learn how to live independently & face any challenges. She has to know to always seek the Son.
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    Planting Sunflowers: Raising Children to Seek the Son

    September 23, 2014 /

    Raising children is a harder job than I ever imagined. I say goodnight most nights feeling like I barely sputtered across the finish line, often holding onto regrets from the day, all my pretty failures and missed moments dangling from my weary eyelids. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) Somedays, I feel like I’m trying to stand still in the middle of a child-based hurricane. All I know how to do for sure is hold onto the anchor. Hebrews 6:19 ESV / We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul, a hope that enters…

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    Being a Christian mother was all I wanted, but now, sometimes, I find myself chasing my own agenda or earthly rewards, missing the real work God has for me.

    This is the Real Work of a Christian Mother

    April 16, 2016
    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

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