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  • Godly Parenting

    Purposefully Practical #1

    August 13, 2014 /

    I am trying to be honestly transparent in my posts, making sure every word is Godly and Biblical. But as I have been working on my parenting, I realized that a lesson about anger and temper is a wonderful tool to help our walk become more Godly; however, some practical tips may be more helpful at times. Like when your child is smearing her somehow naked body with soap in front of the sink when all you asked was for her to wash her hands. . . those are the moments I need real answers about how to parent without getting angry. I wrote about Temper Tantrums just a couple…

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    December 5, 2017
    Being a peaceful parent is hard, especially when you're overwhelmed. But it's possible with these tips, when we seek God's face & search our hearts. #PeacefulParent #Parenting #ChristianParent #MomLife #ChristianBlogger #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman

    How to Be a Peaceful Parent When You’re Overwhelmed

    April 27, 2020
    Are you weary, momma? I'm so weary my weary is weary. I can't even think in complete sentences. How do we stay faithful in Christ when we're this exhausted?

    What to do when We are Weary

    February 22, 2016
  • Sanctification is a beautiful process of how God cleans up the mess we've made of our lives, if we let him change what we pour into our lives.
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    Our Jar: Sanctification of our lives

    August 5, 2014 /

    Sanctification is a beautiful process of how God cleans up the mess we’ve made of our lives, if we let him change what we pour into our lives. Watch this wonderful illustration about how prayer changes darkness in our lives when we open the gates wide and pray. What a moving illustration about how God is pouring His light into us as we pray, changing our perspective in even the darkest circumstances. Lately, I’ve had one issue weighing on my heart, sanctification: being transformed into holy beings. The challenge of sin and accountability in the modern body of believers is difficult because we have to balance love with obedience to…

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    My father's life and personality has been my strongest influence. I find joy and sorrow in every visit as I sit surrounded by the bones of my father's life.

    Joy and Sorrow: the Bones of My Father’s Life

    April 26, 2016
    Giveaway!!! Ever felt doubt creep into the corners of your mind? Tried the mental equivalent of plugging your ears? Help My Unbelief can add tools to your faith arsenal.

    Fighting Doubt: A Review of Help My Unbelief and GIVEAWAY

    April 14, 2016
    Do you tell your daughter that she is the most beautiful girl in the world? I do. And I think I'm absolutely right to do so. I've got my Love Goggles on.

    Love Goggles – my daughter is the most beautiful girl in the world

    July 13, 2015
  • Comparison is insidious when we're comparing our spiritual walks. We must run the race set before us. Not compare our beginning with another's finish line.
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    Quit Comparing: Running The Race Set Before Us

    August 2, 2014 /

    Comparison is a sin we all struggle with, but it’s especially insidious when we’re comparing our spiritual walk to the journey of someone else. We need to run the race God has set before us. Not compare our beginning to another’s finish line. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) A few years ago, I was talking with a young wife in our church, discussing the amazing witness of another woman we both admire. She is a beacon of light, hope, love and faith to all who meet her. She is an on her knees, give it all to…

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    Are you a People Pleaser? I have been. I struggle against striving to please people almost daily. But the struggle has gotten easier since I learned the truth.

    The Harsh Truth about being a People Pleaser

    April 28, 2016

    Why We Need Christian Sisters to Overcome Obstacles in Life

    March 6, 2018
    Are you a control freak? I am in a recovery program thanks to Jesus & learning to lose control is messy, but a truly wonderful way to be a wife, mom, woman.

    Go with the flow: My best tips for losing Control

    April 19, 2016
  • My temper tantrums? As parents, we don't often think about our tantrums, but I've grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter.
    Godly Parenting

    Why Should You Stop Throwing Temper Tantrums

    July 28, 2014 /

    Why should I stop throwing temper tantrums? As parents, those generally aren’t the tantrums we think about. But over the past few years, I have grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter. And one verse today just wrecked me. And I want to come to you from that place right now: not a place of having conquered, but still conquering, sometimes still failing. But I see God’s work in my heart as I grow more and more. My temper tantrums were damaging my family. Yours are too. God has called us to control our temper tantrums now. I’ve been trying to rewrite this post for days, but…

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    My Mother's Day perspective has changed through all the challenges and exhilarating moments of motherhood. I hope I leave half the legacy my mom has. #MothersDay #ChristianParenting #MomLife #Parenting #ChristianWoman

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    May 4, 2016
    How can I explain senseless violence to my child? It's too heartbreaking to imagine, but my daughter looks to me for answers and comfort in an uncertain world.

    How Can I Explain Senseless Violence to my Child?

    February 18, 2018

    Don’t Waste Your Wait! You might have a Divine Appointment

    April 27, 2017
  • Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls
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    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014 /

    A science experiment made God’s love real to me at my daughter’s fourth birthday party in an object lesson I never forgot. My daughter had a science themed birthday party when she turned four. I was searching for a cute gender neutral party theme, and thought science experiments would be something different and extra fun. All the kids wore labs coats and colorful safety glasses. They blew touchable bubbles from test tubes, and we performed several easy experiments. We covered the lawn with Mentos and Diet Coke, the kitchen with vinegar and baking soda. The party was a blast. One of everyone’s favorites was the packing peanuts experiment. I took…

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    Are you a control freak? I am in a recovery program thanks to Jesus & learning to lose control is messy, but a truly wonderful way to be a wife, mom, woman.

    Go with the flow: My best tips for losing Control

    April 19, 2016

    30 Days Without Complaint 48 hours: Be a Light in the World

    October 24, 2014
    The Fifty Shades series isAs a Christian woman, I shouldn't have to say anything about not to reading or watching them, but as a rape victim and a mother, I felt I need to.

    A Rape Victim’s Problem with Fifty Shades and the like

    February 23, 2017
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