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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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  • If real love does not insist on its own way, how much of the problems in my marriage are from failing to live this scripture. Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting,  Marriage

    Its Own Way: Having 1 Cor. 13 Love in my marriage

    February 20, 2015 /

    Sunday, my husband and I decided to cook spaghetti together. We had different ideas about making the sauce. Tomato sauce is one of the few things that I have worked to perfect, so I started to fight for my way. What should have been a simple discussion about which step should go first, started to be about who was a better chef, smarter, and generally the most rightest person in all the universe. I silently prayed for the right heart in that moment, and adjusted my attitude before it became a fight. Yet, I should have stopped before I started. The next day, God pointed me right to what He…

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    Do you feel called to homeschool? Maybe you think you might be or feel like you wish you could, but are questioning if God has called you to homeschool.

    How to know if you’re really Called to Homeschool

    July 31, 2017

    Watch Me, Daddy!

    June 16, 2014
    My perspective on homemaking has changed over the past few years as I've made my heart Christ's home. What I had always imagined wasn't what God wanted at all.

    Revisited: My Perspective on Homemaking and Tiffany Lamps

    October 15, 2014
  • Letting Christmas be about reflecting the light of the world
    Marriage

    The Light of the World

    December 18, 2014 /

    I’m a work in progress. I was a bit of a pushy, bossy porcupine for a long time, intent on controlling my world and all the hurtful things in it. Every day, I work toward being different and walking the difficult road to change people’s expectations of me. Christmas is a huge chance to demonstrate a shift in my heart towards humility and gentleness. 1 John 1:7 ESV  “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin.” My house is decked with lights and holiday greenery, wreaths and…

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    When people disappoint us, we can be so surprised. We stand there with our pretty picture shattered and say now what? What do we do when people disappoint?

    What to do When People Disappoint

    February 25, 2016

    Beautifully Taken for Granted: Building Trust in Marriage

    November 11, 2015
    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    More than Conquerors

    October 31, 2014 /

    I started this #30DaysWithoutComplaint challenge with a true desire to let God’s work in my heart flow into all areas of my life, starting with what I say, hoping to then transform how I think, and eventually be able to master what attitude I have. The first couple of days went really well, but I got a little cocky and too busy. I let distractions pull me away from my quiet time with God. And I didn’t have my armor on when life got tough. Ephesians 6:11 ESV “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” When my…

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    Are you good at handling rejection? What should we do when people reject us because of our beliefs and values as Christians? Embrace the Butterfly Effect! #ChristianWoman #Faith #ChristianLiving #HandlingRejection

    The Butterfly Effect: Handling Rejection as a Christian

    August 25, 2014
    Are you holding grudges? Is there a hurt you can't let go? What does the Bible say about moving past those rejections to forgiveness?

    Are You Tired of Holding Grudges?

    May 27, 2014

    How to Defeat Female Body Image Issues for Women of Faith

    May 17, 2020
  • Godly Parenting

    Summer’s Over

    August 11, 2014 /

    For the past couple of weeks, the ads have started popping up on television. Back to school fliers seem to be everywhere, and school supplies began taking over the shelves at Target and Wal-Mart. As a high school teacher for 17 years those were rarely welcome signs; I enjoyed my quiet summer vacations, reading by the pool or lake. Of course, once I became a parent, quiet summers became ancient history, but there is something special to love in the noisy chaos of kids. Then this morning, I was greeted on Facebook by this image. But this isn’t how I feel about the end of summer. In fact, this isn’t…

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    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014
    Finding God in the moments of parenthood for ourselves as His children.

    Ice Cream Messages

    June 29, 2015
    Can 1 Bible verse help me be a better, more consistent parent? Can being firm actually be more loving? God's love letter answers me in unexpected ways.

    1 Bible verse to be a Better, More Consistent Parent

    March 16, 2016
  • Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014 /

    A science experiment made God’s love real to me at my daughter’s fourth birthday party in an object lesson I never forgot. My daughter had a science themed birthday party when she turned four. I was searching for a cute gender neutral party theme, and thought science experiments would be something different and extra fun. All the kids wore labs coats and colorful safety glasses. They blew touchable bubbles from test tubes, and we performed several easy experiments. We covered the lawn with Mentos and Diet Coke, the kitchen with vinegar and baking soda. The party was a blast. One of everyone’s favorites was the packing peanuts experiment. I took…

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    I make the same resolution every year. But I want to make my BEST New Years Resolution this year. God has convicted me that He wants more OF me not from me.

    My Best New Years Resolution

    January 1, 2016
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    My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics

    July 3, 2020
    My perspective on homemaking has changed over the past few years as I've made my heart Christ's home. What I had always imagined wasn't what God wanted at all.

    Revisited: My Perspective on Homemaking and Tiffany Lamps

    October 15, 2014
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