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  • If real love does not insist on its own way, how much of the problems in my marriage are from failing to live this scripture. Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting,  Marriage

    Its Own Way: Having 1 Cor. 13 Love in my marriage

    February 20, 2015 /

    Sunday, my husband and I decided to cook spaghetti together. We had different ideas about making the sauce. Tomato sauce is one of the few things that I have worked to perfect, so I started to fight for my way. What should have been a simple discussion about which step should go first, started to be about who was a better chef, smarter, and generally the most rightest person in all the universe. I silently prayed for the right heart in that moment, and adjusted my attitude before it became a fight. Yet, I should have stopped before I started. The next day, God pointed me right to what He…

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    My temper tantrums? As parents, we don't often think about our tantrums, but I've grown increasingly convicted about my anger, especially towards my daughter.

    Why Should You Stop Throwing Temper Tantrums

    July 28, 2014
    Growing up, only Catholics celebrated Lent, but I've grown to embrace the season. This year I'm giving up something bizarre to be a better mom and closer to God

    The Bizarre Thing I’m Giving Up for Lent that will Make Me a Better Mom

    March 1, 2017
    Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. But . . .

    3 Ways to be a Happier Mom

    December 8, 2015
  • Letting Christmas be about reflecting the light of the world
    Marriage

    The Light of the World

    December 18, 2014 /

    I’m a work in progress. I was a bit of a pushy, bossy porcupine for a long time, intent on controlling my world and all the hurtful things in it. Every day, I work toward being different and walking the difficult road to change people’s expectations of me. Christmas is a huge chance to demonstrate a shift in my heart towards humility and gentleness. 1 John 1:7 ESV  “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin.” My house is decked with lights and holiday greenery, wreaths and…

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    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
    What's the best Father's Day gift for your husband? A tie? A grill? A fishing trip? Nope, and it's free. But might be the most important gift you can give him this Father's Day and every day. #FathersDay #DadsMatter #LoveandRespect #Marriage #Fathers

    The Best Father’s Day Gift for Your Husband

    June 15, 2019
    Check out this week's installment of Ask Away Thursday - one question, LOTS of answers!

    Which job is right for me? Ask Away Thursday

    March 17, 2016
  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    More than Conquerors

    October 31, 2014 /

    I started this #30DaysWithoutComplaint challenge with a true desire to let God’s work in my heart flow into all areas of my life, starting with what I say, hoping to then transform how I think, and eventually be able to master what attitude I have. The first couple of days went really well, but I got a little cocky and too busy. I let distractions pull me away from my quiet time with God. And I didn’t have my armor on when life got tough. Ephesians 6:11 ESV “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” When my…

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    How to Have a Christ-Centered Valentine’s Day

    February 13, 2020
    Supporting friends caring for a premature baby can be such a Godsend during an already difficult time. Here are some great suggestions how you can help.

    Ways You Can Support a Family with a Premature Baby

    November 17, 2017
    Do you need a fresh start this new year? I know I do. But we can't control what will come in the next twelve months, only how we react to it. #Faith #NewYears #Resolution #FreshStart #ChristianLiving #FaithBasedLiving #ChristianWoman

    Have a Fresh Start this New Year

    December 20, 2019
  • Godly Parenting

    Summer’s Over

    August 11, 2014 /

    For the past couple of weeks, the ads have started popping up on television. Back to school fliers seem to be everywhere, and school supplies began taking over the shelves at Target and Wal-Mart. As a high school teacher for 17 years those were rarely welcome signs; I enjoyed my quiet summer vacations, reading by the pool or lake. Of course, once I became a parent, quiet summers became ancient history, but there is something special to love in the noisy chaos of kids. Then this morning, I was greeted on Facebook by this image. But this isn’t how I feel about the end of summer. In fact, this isn’t…

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    Turning 5 is one of the hardest birthday milestones for mommas as much as a celebration for our children. Read my touching letter about watching her turn 5.

    The Last Night You Were 4: Birthday Milestones

    May 19, 2015
    If real love does not insist on its own way, how much of the problems in my marriage are from failing to live this scripture. Heaven Not Harvard

    Its Own Way: Having 1 Cor. 13 Love in my marriage

    February 20, 2015
    How can my sweet baby girl be six already? No matter how many times I try to grasp the sands of time a little harder, be more determined to be more intentional, the days just keep running away with my heart.

    How can my Sweet Baby Girl be Six Already?

    May 14, 2016
  • Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls
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    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014 /

    A science experiment made God’s love real to me at my daughter’s fourth birthday party in an object lesson I never forgot. My daughter had a science themed birthday party when she turned four. I was searching for a cute gender neutral party theme, and thought science experiments would be something different and extra fun. All the kids wore labs coats and colorful safety glasses. They blew touchable bubbles from test tubes, and we performed several easy experiments. We covered the lawn with Mentos and Diet Coke, the kitchen with vinegar and baking soda. The party was a blast. One of everyone’s favorites was the packing peanuts experiment. I took…

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    Dear Friend, My testimony is that giving up changed everything in my life and I want you to give up too! Total surrender was my victory. #Testimony #Faith #Evangelism #Christianity #ChristianWoman #Christianblogger

    Dear Friend, My testimony – giving up changed everything.

    June 7, 2016
    The Muppet Show that debuted last night was a drastic departure from my memories. And left me feeling disappointed for my daughter and in our media culture.

    Muppet Show Misses Mark

    September 23, 2015
    Despite many challenges, I've learned the blessing isn't a storm free life, but God's presence and peace in the storm.

    The Blessing isn’t a Storm Free Life, but Peace in the Storm

    December 31, 2016
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