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  • Children must be born with the innate knowledge that whining works and makes us crazy. Teach your toddler to quit whining!
    Ask Away Thursday,  Godly Parenting

    How to Teach your Toddler to Quit Whining: Ask Away Thursday

    April 7, 2016 /

    Reader Question: How do I teach my toddler to quit whining? Ugh, I get it! Whining just exasperates me! Children must be born with the ability to whine and the innate knowledge that it grates on mommy nerves. My mother-in-law jokingly suggested giving them everything they want. I know for a fact that was not her strategy with her children or mine. She is a bit more old school and tends to just tell them to knock it off, which can be fairly effective from Grandma, but not so much from mom. But this is an age old problem. And I’m sure my solution isn’t new, but it’s what works…

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    March 17, 2016
  • Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. But . . .
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    3 Ways to be a Happier Mom

    December 8, 2015 /

    Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. You have an MBA but just spent ten minutes arguing with a two-year-old that the strawberry jam in the squeeze bottle is exactly the same as the jar. Cleaning house is pointless. You want a healthy, clean house for a tiny person who leaves messes in his wake like Godzilla in Tokyo. Life is a never-ending cycle of feeding people, cleaning up after people and doing chores over and over and over. And sometimes there is poop – okay, lots of times, there is poop. So how do…

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    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017
    Does what you put on the outside transform the inside? Christians as Rachel Dolezal - Heaven Not Harvard

    Christians as Rachel Dolezal: Faking it

    June 15, 2015
    Please Pray - Our nation is in a state of emergency. We face, perhaps, the most pivotal moment in our nation's trajectory. And it all seems like it is spinning out of control.

    Emergency Call to Action – Please Pray Jeremiah with Me

    October 15, 2016
  • Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015 /

    How it hurts when we crave the presence of someone special in our home and around our table that doesn’t come. How convicting it is to realize that we’ve been the invited, treasured guest who did not come to the feast. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) My sweet stepson is visiting for Fall Break, an all too short five days, into which we’ve crammed pancake breakfasts, a pumpkin patch trip, elaborate dinners, family movie nights, football in the yard, ice cream truck purchases right before dinner, a decadent chocolate cake, and a fishing trip with daddy today…

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    Are you looking for ways to pray during a crisis? Sometimes all we can do is pray. But thankfully we serve a God able to ANSWER those prayers! #Prayer #Faith #ChristianBlogger #PrayerChangesThings #Christian #FaithBasedLiving

    Ways to Pray During a Crisis

    March 15, 2020
    What is so captivating about a princess story? We grow up imagining living the fairy tale dream, but often we forget what it means to be a daughter of the king.

    What so Captures our Imagination in a Princess Story?

    May 19, 2018

    Why We Need Christian Sisters to Overcome Obstacles in Life

    March 6, 2018
  • Finding God in the moments of parenthood for ourselves as His children.
    Godly Parenting

    Ice Cream Messages

    June 29, 2015 /

    Tonight I was searching for God’s answers to some big prayers. As I wrote about our day, I realized this evening’s events are a perfect example of the way I experience God’s answers in my everyday mom moments. Earlier, my daughter ran inside shrieking. The ice cream truck was driving past our house! Mommy, mommy, mommy. She jumped up and down. “The ice cream truck!” Last time we saw him was a night we weren’t planning a big meal, so we chased the converted school bus down the road, but couldn’t catch him to get any ice cream. I had promised we would try again another day. But here was…

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    September 17, 2014
    Do you tell your daughter that she is the most beautiful girl in the world? I do. And I think I'm absolutely right to do so. I've got my Love Goggles on.

    Love Goggles – my daughter is the most beautiful girl in the world

    July 13, 2015
    Do you stress yourself out worrying about being a better mom? Constantly feeling like you'll be a better mom tomorrow? Let's ditch that mentality & focus on what God wants for us as mothers today. #MomLife #Parenting #ChristianMom #MomGuilt #ChristianParenting #HisGraceGirls #ChristianBlogger #SheBlogs #SheWritesTruth

    Ditching the “I’ll be a better mom, tomorrow” Mentality

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  • Has your child ever been destructive? How do you handle the chaos with Christ in the middle - Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting

    Welcome to the Club

    June 10, 2015 /

    It’s been just about a year since this happened. I still can’t believe she did that! I don’t even notice the marks on the bed anymore. I am forever grateful that I was able to handle this act of destruction in a loving way. Our relationship would have been more damaged than the bed had I not.

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    Parenting with a Kingdom mindset, focusing on Heaven not Harvard has become the definition for more than just my parenting-And changes me more daily.

    Heaven Not Harvard: Faith Focused Parenting & Living

    March 1, 2014
    Being a Christian mother was all I wanted, but now, sometimes, I find myself chasing my own agenda or earthly rewards, missing the real work God has for me.

    This is the Real Work of a Christian Mother

    April 16, 2016
    Seriously Harvard? God convicted me that my parenting expectations were way out of whack. Was I really parenting for Harvard or Heaven?

    Seriously Harvard!? How I reset my parenting expectations

    March 27, 2014
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