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  • Children must be born with the innate knowledge that whining works and makes us crazy. Teach your toddler to quit whining!
    Ask Away Thursday,  Godly Parenting

    How to Teach your Toddler to Quit Whining: Ask Away Thursday

    April 7, 2016 /

    Reader Question: How do I teach my toddler to quit whining? Ugh, I get it! Whining just exasperates me! Children must be born with the ability to whine and the innate knowledge that it grates on mommy nerves. My mother-in-law jokingly suggested giving them everything they want. I know for a fact that was not her strategy with her children or mine. She is a bit more old school and tends to just tell them to knock it off, which can be fairly effective from Grandma, but not so much from mom. But this is an age old problem. And I’m sure my solution isn’t new, but it’s what works…

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    March 17, 2016
  • Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. But . . .
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    3 Ways to be a Happier Mom

    December 8, 2015 /

    Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. You have an MBA but just spent ten minutes arguing with a two-year-old that the strawberry jam in the squeeze bottle is exactly the same as the jar. Cleaning house is pointless. You want a healthy, clean house for a tiny person who leaves messes in his wake like Godzilla in Tokyo. Life is a never-ending cycle of feeding people, cleaning up after people and doing chores over and over and over. And sometimes there is poop – okay, lots of times, there is poop. So how do…

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    June 8, 2020
    Feeling a little lost, even abandoned by God in a tough season? I've been struggling with it, but a fire gave me eyes to see purpose in the Refiner's Fire.

    How a Forest Fire Reminded Me of the Refiner’s Fire

    April 21, 2017
  • Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015 /

    How it hurts when we crave the presence of someone special in our home and around our table that doesn’t come. How convicting it is to realize that we’ve been the invited, treasured guest who did not come to the feast. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) My sweet stepson is visiting for Fall Break, an all too short five days, into which we’ve crammed pancake breakfasts, a pumpkin patch trip, elaborate dinners, family movie nights, football in the yard, ice cream truck purchases right before dinner, a decadent chocolate cake, and a fishing trip with daddy today…

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    I went into the movie pro-life. And still left changed. You need to see Unplanned & look behind the curtain at the abortion industry.

    Unplanned is the Movie We All Need to See

    March 29, 2019
    How we handle conflict as Christian women is so important because conflict can destroy the body of Christ and our witness if we don't handle it well. #ChristianWomen #ConflictResolution #ChristianBlogger #Faith

    How to Handle Conflict as Christian Women

    September 1, 2017
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    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020
  • Finding God in the moments of parenthood for ourselves as His children.
    Godly Parenting

    Ice Cream Messages

    June 29, 2015 /

    Tonight I was searching for God’s answers to some big prayers. As I wrote about our day, I realized this evening’s events are a perfect example of the way I experience God’s answers in my everyday mom moments. Earlier, my daughter ran inside shrieking. The ice cream truck was driving past our house! Mommy, mommy, mommy. She jumped up and down. “The ice cream truck!” Last time we saw him was a night we weren’t planning a big meal, so we chased the converted school bus down the road, but couldn’t catch him to get any ice cream. I had promised we would try again another day. But here was…

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    The Muppet Show that debuted last night was a drastic departure from my memories. And left me feeling disappointed for my daughter and in our media culture.

    Muppet Show Misses Mark

    September 23, 2015
    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014
    Raising my daughter to know her worth and beauty as a person for who she is, not who she looks like.

    Don’t Make Your Brown Eyes Blue

    May 7, 2014
  • Has your child ever been destructive? How do you handle the chaos with Christ in the middle - Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting

    Welcome to the Club

    June 10, 2015 /

    It’s been just about a year since this happened. I still can’t believe she did that! I don’t even notice the marks on the bed anymore. I am forever grateful that I was able to handle this act of destruction in a loving way. Our relationship would have been more damaged than the bed had I not.

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    Being a peaceful parent is hard, especially when you're overwhelmed. But it's possible with these tips, when we seek God's face & search our hearts. #PeacefulParent #Parenting #ChristianParent #MomLife #ChristianBlogger #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman

    How to Be a Peaceful Parent When You’re Overwhelmed

    April 27, 2020

    Summer’s Over

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    Turning 5 is one of the hardest birthday milestones for mommas as much as a celebration for our children. Read my touching letter about watching her turn 5.

    The Last Night You Were 4: Birthday Milestones

    May 19, 2015
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