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  • Children must be born with the innate knowledge that whining works and makes us crazy. Teach your toddler to quit whining!
    Ask Away Thursday,  Godly Parenting

    How to Teach your Toddler to Quit Whining: Ask Away Thursday

    April 7, 2016 /

    Reader Question: How do I teach my toddler to quit whining? Ugh, I get it! Whining just exasperates me! Children must be born with the ability to whine and the innate knowledge that it grates on mommy nerves. My mother-in-law jokingly suggested giving them everything they want. I know for a fact that was not her strategy with her children or mine. She is a bit more old school and tends to just tell them to knock it off, which can be fairly effective from Grandma, but not so much from mom. But this is an age old problem. And I’m sure my solution isn’t new, but it’s what works…

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    March 17, 2016
  • Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. But . . .
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    3 Ways to be a Happier Mom

    December 8, 2015 /

    Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. You have an MBA but just spent ten minutes arguing with a two-year-old that the strawberry jam in the squeeze bottle is exactly the same as the jar. Cleaning house is pointless. You want a healthy, clean house for a tiny person who leaves messes in his wake like Godzilla in Tokyo. Life is a never-ending cycle of feeding people, cleaning up after people and doing chores over and over and over. And sometimes there is poop – okay, lots of times, there is poop. So how do…

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    February 13, 2020
    When people disappoint us, we can be so surprised. We stand there with our pretty picture shattered and say now what? What do we do when people disappoint?

    What to do When People Disappoint

    February 25, 2016
    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017
  • Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015 /

    How it hurts when we crave the presence of someone special in our home and around our table that doesn’t come. How convicting it is to realize that we’ve been the invited, treasured guest who did not come to the feast. (this site uses Affiliate links-purchases support our ministry through a small referral fee that never affects your cost.) My sweet stepson is visiting for Fall Break, an all too short five days, into which we’ve crammed pancake breakfasts, a pumpkin patch trip, elaborate dinners, family movie nights, football in the yard, ice cream truck purchases right before dinner, a decadent chocolate cake, and a fishing trip with daddy today…

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    Giveaway!!! Ever felt doubt creep into the corners of your mind? Tried the mental equivalent of plugging your ears? Help My Unbelief can add tools to your faith arsenal.

    Fighting Doubt: A Review of Help My Unbelief and GIVEAWAY

    April 14, 2016
    Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

    July 22, 2014
    Sacrificial giving is a lost art in our #blessed culture. Too often, we'll give from the overflow of our closets rather than of our hearts. We can give better.

    The Importance of the Lost Art of Sacrificial Giving

    December 11, 2017
  • Finding God in the moments of parenthood for ourselves as His children.
    Godly Parenting

    Ice Cream Messages

    June 29, 2015 /

    Tonight I was searching for God’s answers to some big prayers. As I wrote about our day, I realized this evening’s events are a perfect example of the way I experience God’s answers in my everyday mom moments. Earlier, my daughter ran inside shrieking. The ice cream truck was driving past our house! Mommy, mommy, mommy. She jumped up and down. “The ice cream truck!” Last time we saw him was a night we weren’t planning a big meal, so we chased the converted school bus down the road, but couldn’t catch him to get any ice cream. I had promised we would try again another day. But here was…

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    Are you weary, momma? I'm so weary my weary is weary. I can't even think in complete sentences. How do we stay faithful in Christ when we're this exhausted?

    What to do when We are Weary

    February 22, 2016

    Why I Disappointed my Daughter for Christmas

    December 30, 2015
    This tiny tyrant rules my heart, but I need to raise her to be the woman and Godly wife she is meant to be.

    Imagine your tiny tyrant – a Godly wife

    May 2, 2014
  • Has your child ever been destructive? How do you handle the chaos with Christ in the middle - Heaven Not Harvard
    Godly Parenting

    Welcome to the Club

    June 10, 2015 /

    It’s been just about a year since this happened. I still can’t believe she did that! I don’t even notice the marks on the bed anymore. I am forever grateful that I was able to handle this act of destruction in a loving way. Our relationship would have been more damaged than the bed had I not.

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    Have we taken too much JOY out of childhood? Regulated away all the fun? Say Yes to More Mud Puddles and soak up the moments that make life worth living.

    Say Yes to More Mud Puddles: Reclaiming Joy in Childhood

    January 6, 2015

    Summer’s Over

    August 11, 2014
    Contending for your children's faith can sound daunting. As a Christian parent, there is no 100% way to parent that brings kids to Jesus, but there are things we can do to give them a firm foundation. #Apologetics #ChristianParenting #ChristianMom #ChristianBlogger #Parenting #MamaBearApologetics #RoarLikeaMother

    How to Raise Godly Children by Contending for Their Faith

    May 1, 2020
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