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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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  • Book Reviews,  Faith based living

    How to Defeat Female Body Image Issues for Women of Faith

    May 17, 2020 /

    Defeating female body image issues meant getting real about the root of those issues. First, separate the facts about female body image issues from the lies. Lie #1 – My life will be better when I fix my body. I would be happier if I were thin. People would like me better if I was skinnier. Having a better body will improve my marriage. I’ll have more self-esteem if I look thin and toned. If my body looked better, I wouldn’t have any issues, right? I was so wrong. Nothing I did to improve my appearance solved any other problems I had in my life. I still had to learn…

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    How to be Right So People Will Listen

    January 3, 2020
    Do you know how to talk to kids about Jesus to help them build a solid foundation for faith? Let me share how to arm your kids with the truth about Jesus. #ChristianParent #ChristianMom #Apologetics #Faith #Parenting #BookReviews #ChristianBookReviews #TalkingWithYourKidsAboutJesus

    How to Talk with Kids about Jesus

    March 5, 2020
    How do you do friendship in the hard places of life and make every moment count? Just show up, an incredible story of faith and friendship and grace.

    Handling Hard in Friendship: Just Show Up

    January 6, 2016
  • I became pro life when I learned the truth behind the pro choice position was hiding from science & when I recognized real human value comes from God.
    Faith based living

    What Changed my Heart and made me Pro Life?

    February 23, 2019 /

    A Christian blogger being pro life is not very surprising, but what might surprise you is that I was pro choice much of my life. It’s still really hard to admit. About 15 years ago, God began to get ahold of my heart in a way that changed everything I thought I knew. My pro-choice argument went something like this: Life begins at conception, but it is my religious belief in the Bible that informs my position. I do not believe abortion is a good choice and would never encourage a friend to have an abortion, but I don’t have the right to force my religious beliefs onto others. I…

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    What is intentional multitasking? It's how I quit feeling stressed and crazy, started getting stuff done, and found more time for enjoying my child.

    Intentional Multitasking for Busy Moms

    May 7, 2017
    Growing up, only Catholics celebrated Lent, but I've grown to embrace the season. This year I'm giving up something bizarre to be a better mom and closer to God

    The Bizarre Thing I’m Giving Up for Lent that will Make Me a Better Mom

    March 1, 2017
    Stop making resolutions that promise worldly perfection. Try one promising holiness and eternal perfection. Follow a Bible reading plan in the new year! #NewYearsResolutions #BibleReadingPlan #ChristianWoman #ChristianLiving #FaithBasedLiving

    Why Follow a Bible Reading Plan in the New Year

    December 30, 2019
  • Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. But . . .
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    3 Ways to be a Happier Mom

    December 8, 2015 /

    Do you want to be a happier mom? Be a Mom without complaining. Did you just laugh? Because momming is soul sucking. You have an MBA but just spent ten minutes arguing with a two-year-old that the strawberry jam in the squeeze bottle is exactly the same as the jar. Cleaning house is pointless. You want a healthy, clean house for a tiny person who leaves messes in his wake like Godzilla in Tokyo. Life is a never-ending cycle of feeding people, cleaning up after people and doing chores over and over and over. And sometimes there is poop – okay, lots of times, there is poop. So how do…

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    Election season has never felt quite so divisive as it did this year. The entire country is so desperately polarized. What should Americans do now?

    The Election is Over. What should Americans do now?

    November 9, 2016
    Twelve years ago today, I got pulled over by the sheriff. I couldn't imagine how one "traffic stop" would change my life with a soldier's fairy tale proposal.

    Fairy Tale Proposal and Happily Ever After

    November 11, 2014
    Dear Friend, My testimony is that giving up changed everything in my life and I want you to give up too! Total surrender was my victory. #Testimony #Faith #Evangelism #Christianity #ChristianWoman #Christianblogger

    Dear Friend, My testimony – giving up changed everything.

    June 7, 2016
  • Do you tell your daughter that she is the most beautiful girl in the world? I do. And I think I'm absolutely right to do so. I've got my Love Goggles on.
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Love Goggles – my daughter is the most beautiful girl in the world

    July 13, 2015 /

    Do you have Love Goggles? I bet you do. I have whispered a shocking secret to my daughter many times since she was born. “You are the most beautiful girl in the world,” I would say, gently kissing her cheek or forehead. Then add, “to me,” lest she wake up one day completely surprised that she isn’t. That day came sooner than I could have ever imagined. My daughter had a wonderful playdate with a friend that turned emotional quickly. Hangry is a real thing. It was such a dramatic meltdown, from perfect harmony to disaster in less than a minute, that it was almost comical. Our emotional center of…

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    Being saturated in the word is necessary for every Christian who wants to truly know God and doesn't want to mistake almost right for real truth. #ChristianLiving #ChristianWoman #SheBlogs #Blogger #FaithBasedLiving #Christians #Bible

    Should I Read the Bible? What Christians Should Know

    May 16, 2020
    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014
    Does what you put on the outside transform the inside? Christians as Rachel Dolezal - Heaven Not Harvard

    Christians as Rachel Dolezal: Faking it

    June 15, 2015
  • What does sorry mean? What does repentance and contrition look like? Are you Sorry, Not Sorry? HeavenNotHarvard.com
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Sorry, Not Sorry

    February 11, 2015 /

    She came in from playing outside, her cheeks flushed from the southern sunshine. “Please go pick up your room before dinner,” I asked. My four-year-old turned, made an angry face, with fists at her sides, “I don’t want to!” Giving her the ‘mom’ look, I started towards her. She quickly ran to her room,  continuing to shout and whine. I followed her, trying to maintain my patience while I explained that she will not speak to me like this and that picking up her toys is her responsibility. She yelled, “SORRY! But I . . .” And I listened to her little rant, gently corrected her attitude, and modeled an…

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    A better set of rules for daughters, centered on Jesus, just like you hope her life will be. #rulesfordaughters #ChristianMom #ChristianParenting #MomLife #ChristianWoman #MothersDaughters

    The Best Christian Rules to Teach your Daughter

    June 21, 2019
    Want to change your attitude? Have more peace? Experience more joy in your life? Take the 30 Days without Complaint challenge with me!

    Can you go 30 Days Without Complaint?

    October 23, 2014
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    My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics

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