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    Army Wife Life,  Faith based living,  Marriage

    Learn How to Love Your Husband: the Key is Secret Service

    June 2, 2020 /

    Learning how to love your husband can be as simple as secret service. It was the key to unlocking my bitter, angry heart and learning to love my husband again, which, in turn, saved our marriage. What I really needed to learn was how to love your husband according to the Bible! We still really loved each other, but something was very broken. My husband was angry all the time. I was bitter. We could barely talk about anything without bickering, so we didn’t. I did my thing. He did his. We slept in the same bed, but we weren’t any kind of team. (keep reading for how dirty underwear…

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    Beautifully Taken for Granted: Building Trust in Marriage

    November 11, 2015
    Do you have a Thanksgiving attitude just on the fourth Thursday in November or should thanksgiving be an attitude we have for more than just one day?

    Thanksgiving Attitude – More than a Day

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  • Learn how to pray to God to start your day! See the power of prayer in your life. My acrostic - Pray Awake is setting the tone of my heart & home. Free Printable to frame and use daily! #Prayer #ChristianBlogger #Faith #FreePrintable #FaithBlogger #ChristianLiving #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman
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    A Morning Prayer to Start Your Day with God

    May 13, 2020 /

    I wrote this morning prayer a few years ago, when I needed to learn how to pray to God to start my day with the right heart and attitude as a wife and mother. (Free daily prayer printable below) After becoming a stay at home mom, I felt very convicted about how I started my days. No rush to get to work, I would usually roll over, grab my phone, and check Facebook. Blessedly, I had the luxury most mornings to gradually open my eyes, covered in snuggles with my little. But starting my day without a morning prayer, I found myself worrying about this, stressing about that, completely letting…

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    Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

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    A Change in Perspective

    November 28, 2014
    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017
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    What about when God plans disaster?

    October 28, 2016 /

    Wait, what? God plans disaster? He does. And this might not be my most popular post. But we need to know that God plans the steps of everyone for His purpose, even when it includes an earthly version of disaster. Last fall, I was participating in a nightly Praying the Scripture challenge and I wrote this quick commentary on which I’m elaborating today. Christians are are facing a world that has increasingly abandoned scriptural teachings. Even churches are affirming sin and teaching unsound doctrine. The American political landscape is more divided than ever, and we can’t even trust our news to report objectively. We are wringing our hands, wondering what…

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    Don’t Waste Your Wait! You might have a Divine Appointment

    April 27, 2017
    My perspective on homemaking has changed over the past few years as I've made my heart Christ's home. What I had always imagined wasn't what God wanted at all.

    Revisited: My Perspective on Homemaking and Tiffany Lamps

    October 15, 2014
    "Life isn't fair!" she sobbed from the backseat, holding her broken balloon. "I wanted to show my daddy!" And in that moment my minivan became a place of ministry to both of us.

    Life isn’t Fair, Broken Balloons, and a Good Father

    October 7, 2016
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    Tomato Plant Children

    June 25, 2015 /

    We eat a lot of tomatoes. I think my husband lives on pico de gallo. I can’t tell you the number of last-minute shopping trips that involve needing a tomato. So, in my infinite wisdom, I, who cannot keep any potted plants alive and do only marginally better with a flower garden, decided we should buy a trellised potted tomato plant last summer so we would have at least a small supply on hand. We carefully picked just the right place for it, watered it diligently, watched excitedly as it bloomed. When the first tomatoes began to grow, my daughter stood over them everyday waiting to pick the first one.…

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    June 14, 2014
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