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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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    5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics

    July 2, 2020 /

    All Christians should study apologetics. Christians should study apologetics may sound like a bold claim if you’ve barely even heard of apologetics, but I promise you apologetics has been the most important thing I’ve done for my faith besides reading my Bible regularly. What is Apologetics? Apologetics is a rational, organized defense of the Christian faith. It is the why behind the what we believe. Apologetics has many different aspects. Some people study the timelines of events in the Bible. Astrophysicists study the universe and God’s hand in creation. Some apologists are philosophers who consider the rational reasoning behind having faith. Some are archaeologists who examine artifacts and geographical evidence…

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    Are you a People Pleaser? I have been. I struggle against striving to please people almost daily. But the struggle has gotten easier since I learned the truth.

    The Harsh Truth about being a People Pleaser

    April 28, 2016
    Woman looking out a window at a fire - Are you stressed and wondering does the Bible have answers for you in difficult times? Let me share some Bible verses about trusting God in hard times. #Christianity #Christianliving #Faith #ChristianBlog #Bible #ChristianWoman #HardTimes #TrustingGod

    Does the Bible Have Answers in Difficult Times

    April 11, 2020
    Going without complaining has been my annual November challenge the past few years. Nothing sets my heart on thankfulness more than going without complaining.

    Will you take the BOLD 30 days without complaining challenge?

    November 1, 2017
  • Can I just have a minute to talk to you about the kind of love I hope you have today, that I hope you have everyday. Do you know how to have an abiding love?
    Faith based living,  Marriage

    Do you know how to have an Abiding Love?

    June 14, 2016 /

    Can I just have a minute to speak into your soul today? I want to talk to you about the kind of love I hope you have today, the kind of love I hope you have everyday, an abiding love. Abiding love is safe, enduring, permanent, sacrificial love. Our worship pastor once read to us from John 15, verses about abiding love, the love of the Father that Christ demonstrated for us through his life of purity and sacrifice. And I just wanted to sit down in the middle of those verses and ABIDE. Like curve into an cozy chair by the fire, swathed in a rich blanket. Abide means…

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    How to be Right So People Will Listen

    January 3, 2020
    Feeling a little lost, even abandoned by God in a tough season? I've been struggling with it, but a fire gave me eyes to see purpose in the Refiner's Fire.

    How a Forest Fire Reminded Me of the Refiner’s Fire

    April 21, 2017
    Two young women laughing wrapped in a blanket on the beach

    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020
  • Can 1 Bible verse help me be a better, more consistent parent? Can being firm actually be more loving? God's love letter answers me in unexpected ways.
    Godly Parenting

    1 Bible verse to be a Better, More Consistent Parent

    March 16, 2016 /

    Can 1 Bible lesson from James soften my heart and help me be a better, more consistent parent? Could standing firm actually make me more loving? One of my favorite experiences as a believer is how God’s word has become this amazing love letter and an active presence in my life as I spend time in it. Proverbs 7:1,3 ESV   My son, keep my words and treasure up my commandments within you  . . .  3 Bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart. When I face struggles, God brings His peace and answers to my mind, helping me understand why we write His…

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    "Did you deserve that ticket?" She asked. I didn't imagine that would be a start to a wonderful lesson in grace.

    A Speeding Ticket Lesson in Grace

    June 11, 2015
    Finding God in the moments of parenthood for ourselves as His children.

    Ice Cream Messages

    June 29, 2015
    I found the only baby advice you really need. The advice I wish I'd known before my daughter was born, and still true if your baby is 2, 10, 25, or 45.

    The Only Baby Advice You Really Need

    April 11, 2016
  • Pointing fingers never lead me to the right answers. Only love did that. Heaven Not Harvard
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    Pointing Fingers

    June 27, 2015 /

    I’ve seen a lot of Pointing Fingers on the internet in the past year about gay marriage, abortion, Planned Parenthood, Target’s restroom policy, etc. But I haven’t see anyone change his/her opinion because of pointing fingers who declare they have a lock on the truth. Instead of arguing, I just wanted to tell you a small part of my story. Nothing I ever did was out of a desire to destroy my life or ruin my relationships or disrespect my parents, but I did do all of those things. From the time I was a teenager, hormones and burgeoning independence and following the popular cult of ME led my life…

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    I make the same resolution every year. But I want to make my BEST New Years Resolution this year. God has convicted me that He wants more OF me not from me.

    My Best New Years Resolution

    January 1, 2016
    Election season has never felt quite so divisive as it did this year. The entire country is so desperately polarized. What should Americans do now?

    The Election is Over. What should Americans do now?

    November 9, 2016
    Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015
  • Skipping the Scale - Heaven Not Harvard. A year without a scale because a set of numbers doesn't set my value.
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    Skipping the Scale

    January 16, 2015 /

    Has your news feed been filled with friends making New Year’s Resolutions? Ads for diet pills and gym membership seeming to overtake every commercial break? I feel a bit bombarded. I can’t remember a time I didn’t start the new year wanting to lose weight. I might have been twelve. Some years, it’s been a few pounds. Other years, January first has started a desperate attempt to drop half of a normal human being. This is one of those years. I may not be normal; it’s hard to tell from inside my own head, but being overweight makes me feel like less of a person, not just less valuable, but…

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    June 2, 2020
    Being saturated in the word is necessary for every Christian who wants to truly know God and doesn't want to mistake almost right for real truth. #ChristianLiving #ChristianWoman #SheBlogs #Blogger #FaithBasedLiving #Christians #Bible

    Should I Read the Bible? What Christians Should Know

    May 16, 2020
    "Life isn't fair!" she sobbed from the backseat, holding her broken balloon. "I wanted to show my daddy!" And in that moment my minivan became a place of ministry to both of us.

    Life isn’t Fair, Broken Balloons, and a Good Father

    October 7, 2016
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