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  • Adoption,  Faith based living

    Just Another Day – Waiting with Hope

    March 23, 2015 /

    Waiting with hope for answers to prayer can be the toughest challenge of our lives. We wait not knowing what the answer will be or when it will come. We try to have faith in the waiting. But what does the day before your miracle look like? Just another day. After a long cold winter, maybe I’m just ready for some sunshine, but I have found that I’m usually seeking HOPE when I come to this special day on the calendar. My verse of the day was this sweet promise in my devotional this morning. This verse was so encouraging in my present circumstances, praying for my own healing and…

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    I didn't rescue her, she helped rescue me. She is my starfish & I am hers. This World Adoption Day we soak up our time together, knowing it's just a season.

    World Adoption Day – My Starfish

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    Supporting friends caring for a premature baby can be such a Godsend during an already difficult time. Here are some great suggestions how you can help.

    Ways You Can Support a Family with a Premature Baby

    November 17, 2017
    I tried to write a piece reflecting how amazing adoption is, but I've yet to find the words. All I can say is adoption made us a family. Happy Adoption Day!

    Adoption Made Us Family: Adoption Day

    November 19, 2016
  • What does sorry mean? What does repentance and contrition look like? Are you Sorry, Not Sorry? HeavenNotHarvard.com
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Sorry, Not Sorry

    February 11, 2015 /

    She came in from playing outside, her cheeks flushed from the southern sunshine. “Please go pick up your room before dinner,” I asked. My four-year-old turned, made an angry face, with fists at her sides, “I don’t want to!” Giving her the ‘mom’ look, I started towards her. She quickly ran to her room,  continuing to shout and whine. I followed her, trying to maintain my patience while I explained that she will not speak to me like this and that picking up her toys is her responsibility. She yelled, “SORRY! But I . . .” And I listened to her little rant, gently corrected her attitude, and modeled an…

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    Dear Friend, My testimony is that giving up changed everything in my life and I want you to give up too! Total surrender was my victory. #Testimony #Faith #Evangelism #Christianity #ChristianWoman #Christianblogger

    Dear Friend, My testimony – giving up changed everything.

    June 7, 2016
    Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015

    What about when God plans disaster?

    October 28, 2016
  • Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    Haircut Failure

    November 5, 2014 /

    Have you ever known you were making a mistake while you were doing it, and kept at it anyway? I think that pretty much sums up my daughter’s recent, unplanned haircut, for both of us. *SIGH* Being a mother challenges the worrier in all of us. I’ve struggled with worry. I’m learning to take my worry to God and doing better at leaving it with Him. I hate the scary things in this world, but am learning to seek wisdom and understanding what things I can actually control, and to know when to pray and let it just be on my radar instead of blocking my entire path. And I…

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    Do you tell your daughter that she is the most beautiful girl in the world? I do. And I think I'm absolutely right to do so. I've got my Love Goggles on.

    Love Goggles – my daughter is the most beautiful girl in the world

    July 13, 2015
    Twelve years ago today, I got pulled over by the sheriff. I couldn't imagine how one "traffic stop" would change my life with a soldier's fairy tale proposal.

    Fairy Tale Proposal and Happily Ever After

    November 11, 2014
    Election season has never felt quite so divisive as it did this year. The entire country is so desperately polarized. What should Americans do now?

    The Election is Over. What should Americans do now?

    November 9, 2016
  • Faith based living

    Faith Mountain

    September 8, 2014 /

    I am standing in the muck right now, spiritual muck. Life got real hard spiritually during the past week. From the outside, everything looks great or at least no different, but from the inside I’m standing in front of a faith mountain pounding my fists against its craggy surface, screaming, “MOVE!!!” But it doesn’t budge. I’m feeling discouraged, defeated, depressed, wounded, alone. I spent several days last week near tears every second of the day. My heart felt like an albatross around my neck. I had moments of laughter, but the sadness just kind of hung around. The situation grew into a mountain. It was a mountain that I have…

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    Are you a People Pleaser? I have been. I struggle against striving to please people almost daily. But the struggle has gotten easier since I learned the truth.

    The Harsh Truth about being a People Pleaser

    April 28, 2016
    Have you Missed God's invitation? Left an empty chair at God's feast? An empty chair at our table reminded me I had turned down His invitation.

    The Empty Chair – Have you Missed God’s Invitation?

    October 18, 2015
    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

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    December 20, 2017
  • Godly Parenting

    Summer’s Over

    August 11, 2014 /

    For the past couple of weeks, the ads have started popping up on television. Back to school fliers seem to be everywhere, and school supplies began taking over the shelves at Target and Wal-Mart. As a high school teacher for 17 years those were rarely welcome signs; I enjoyed my quiet summer vacations, reading by the pool or lake. Of course, once I became a parent, quiet summers became ancient history, but there is something special to love in the noisy chaos of kids. Then this morning, I was greeted on Facebook by this image. But this isn’t how I feel about the end of summer. In fact, this isn’t…

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    How to Better Pray for Your Children

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    The last 365: Saving Eliza

    August 19, 2014
    Are you trying to fill your heart with the things you do? A science experiment made God's love real to me at my daughter's birthday party in an object lesson I won't forget. God's grace changed my identity. #Godsloveisreal #GodsGrace #ChristianMom #ChristianWoman #ChristianBlogger #Christianity #HisGraceGirls

    The Experiment that Made God’s Love Real to Me

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