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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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    Marriage

    The Best Christian Guide for Fair Fighting in Marriage

    June 11, 2020 /

    Need some strategies for fair fighting in marriage? You’re not alone. Fair fighting takes practice in learning to communicate well and graciously handle conflicts. We sometimes forget we need to practice forgiveness and grace the most is at home. We let down our guard and raise our expectations with our families, which is a recipe for disaster. Marriage can bring out the best in us, but also our worst. We’re living in close quarters with another sinner. Our flaws and quirks are going to bump elbows sometimes. Sometimes, those elbows are going to hit sensitive places and arguments start. For me, it’s been a real work of the Holy Spirit…

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    Sharing my Father's Day Gift Guide! I want him to know I see the hard work he does without fanfare or thanks & budget minded mamas, these are $25 or less!

    My Father’s Day Gift Guide for Budget Minded Mamas

    May 31, 2017

    50 Shades of Green Valentine’s Day

    February 14, 2015

    Marriage Advice I Wish I Had 10 years ago

    November 12, 2016
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    Faith based living

    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020 /

    Learning How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman starts learning how to BE a friend. You might think you know how to be a friend. But I had to give this some thought several years ago and really be willing to look more deeply in the mirror. I am loyal and kind, but I struggle with some things that have made developing lasting friendships more challenging for me than for some people. Learning how to make friends comes easy to some. But I have always been that person who felt like she didn’t fit in. I am the person who walks away from a conversation and replays every awkward…

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    "Life isn't fair!" she sobbed from the backseat, holding her broken balloon. "I wanted to show my daddy!" And in that moment my minivan became a place of ministry to both of us.

    Life isn’t Fair, Broken Balloons, and a Good Father

    October 7, 2016
    Red, white & blue are the colors of the day. Flags will wave more today on American soil than any other day of the year. And every country music station will be streaming "I'm proud to be an American."

    The Red, White & Blue

    July 4, 2016
    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
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    Army Wife Life,  Faith based living,  Marriage

    Learn How to Love Your Husband: the Key is Secret Service

    June 2, 2020 /

    Learning how to love your husband can be as simple as secret service. It was the key to unlocking my bitter, angry heart and learning to love my husband again, which, in turn, saved our marriage. What I really needed to learn was how to love your husband according to the Bible! We still really loved each other, but something was very broken. My husband was angry all the time. I was bitter. We could barely talk about anything without bickering, so we didn’t. I did my thing. He did his. We slept in the same bed, but we weren’t any kind of team. (keep reading for how dirty underwear…

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    February 14, 2015
    Check out this week's installment of Ask Away Thursday - one question, LOTS of answers!

    Which job is right for me? Ask Away Thursday

    March 17, 2016
    Social media can be one of the darkest places in the world. But as Christians, we have a responsibility to be the light of Christ in our social media message. #Christianity #SocialMedia #SocialMediaMessage #Christianblogger #HisGraceGirls #Evangelism #Faith #FaithBlogger

    Is Christ the Center of Your Social Media Message?

    June 30, 2017
  • Book Reviews,  Faith based living

    Do you Dare to Really Know Jesus?

    July 9, 2019 /

    If you would consider to dare to know Jesus, I invite you to give Him some serious thought today. Whether you’re a Christian or not, you probably claim to know Jesus, at least in broad strokes. In fact, worldwide, no one person has influenced history more than Jesus. The way we even measure history has been using His birth since A.D. 532. While using Before Christ has become less politically correct, the era still changes approximately at His birth. But which Jesus do you know? There is only one historical Jesus in reality, but how He is painted, described, even taught can vary wildly. And sadly, not even every person…

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    How to Defeat Female Body Image Issues for Women of Faith

    May 17, 2020

    How to be Right So People Will Listen

    January 3, 2020
    Do you know how to talk to kids about Jesus to help them build a solid foundation for faith? Let me share how to arm your kids with the truth about Jesus. #ChristianParent #ChristianMom #Apologetics #Faith #Parenting #BookReviews #ChristianBookReviews #TalkingWithYourKidsAboutJesus

    How to Talk with Kids about Jesus

    March 5, 2020
  • A better set of rules for daughters, centered on Jesus, just like you hope her life will be. #rulesfordaughters #ChristianMom #ChristianParenting #MomLife #ChristianWoman #MothersDaughters
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    The Best Christian Rules to Teach your Daughter

    June 21, 2019 /

    Have you read the rules to teach your daughter going around Facebook? I’ve seen that heart-warming, feel-good list a few times, but never read it carefully. It always seemed like an empowering, you go girl kind of list. Thumbs up, heart it and move on. But when I slowed down to actually read it, I was surprised by how many of those rules don’t line up with how God instructs us to live. In fact, following some of these rules led me down some paths that I don’t want my daughter to walk. I would rather her skip those portions of my coming of age if possible. Seriously, if I…

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    How we handle conflict as Christian women is so important because conflict can destroy the body of Christ and our witness if we don't handle it well. #ChristianWomen #ConflictResolution #ChristianBlogger #Faith

    How to Handle Conflict as Christian Women

    September 1, 2017
    Exploring the things I learned about my attitude and spirit when I changed my words.

    What I Learned When I Stopped Complaining

    February 4, 2015
    Submissive is a dirty word in a culture scared to submit. We fight individuality and our rights, but we'd rather let fear control us than boldly submit. #ChristianMarriage #ChristianWoman #FaithBasedLiving #RadicalWife

    Being Boldly Submissive in a Culture Scared to Submit

    March 8, 2016
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