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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
  • My Picks of the Best Podcasts for Christian Apologetics July 3, 2020
  • 5 Important Reasons Christians Should Study Apologetics July 2, 2020
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    Marriage

    The Best Christian Guide for Fair Fighting in Marriage

    June 11, 2020 /

    Need some strategies for fair fighting in marriage? You’re not alone. Fair fighting takes practice in learning to communicate well and graciously handle conflicts. We sometimes forget we need to practice forgiveness and grace the most is at home. We let down our guard and raise our expectations with our families, which is a recipe for disaster. Marriage can bring out the best in us, but also our worst. We’re living in close quarters with another sinner. Our flaws and quirks are going to bump elbows sometimes. Sometimes, those elbows are going to hit sensitive places and arguments start. For me, it’s been a real work of the Holy Spirit…

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    Family conflict can be especially hurtful. When family conflict surfaces, we are often deeply wounded. And don't always solve it in a way that pleases Christ.

    Solving Family Conflict in a Christ Pleasing Way

    December 20, 2017
    This tiny tyrant rules my heart, but I need to raise her to be the woman and Godly wife she is meant to be.

    Imagine your tiny tyrant – a Godly wife

    May 2, 2014
    When people disappoint us, we can be so surprised. We stand there with our pretty picture shattered and say now what? What do we do when people disappoint?

    What to do When People Disappoint

    February 25, 2016
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    Faith based living

    How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman

    June 8, 2020 /

    Learning How to Make Friends as a Christian Woman starts learning how to BE a friend. You might think you know how to be a friend. But I had to give this some thought several years ago and really be willing to look more deeply in the mirror. I am loyal and kind, but I struggle with some things that have made developing lasting friendships more challenging for me than for some people. Learning how to make friends comes easy to some. But I have always been that person who felt like she didn’t fit in. I am the person who walks away from a conversation and replays every awkward…

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    What is so captivating about a princess story? We grow up imagining living the fairy tale dream, but often we forget what it means to be a daughter of the king.

    What so Captures our Imagination in a Princess Story?

    May 19, 2018
    Sacrificial giving is a lost art in our #blessed culture. Too often, we'll give from the overflow of our closets rather than of our hearts. We can give better.

    The Importance of the Lost Art of Sacrificial Giving

    December 11, 2017
    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
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    Army Wife Life,  Faith based living,  Marriage

    Learn How to Love Your Husband: the Key is Secret Service

    June 2, 2020 /

    Learning how to love your husband can be as simple as secret service. It was the key to unlocking my bitter, angry heart and learning to love my husband again, which, in turn, saved our marriage. What I really needed to learn was how to love your husband according to the Bible! We still really loved each other, but something was very broken. My husband was angry all the time. I was bitter. We could barely talk about anything without bickering, so we didn’t. I did my thing. He did his. We slept in the same bed, but we weren’t any kind of team. (keep reading for how dirty underwear…

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    It's the deployment balancing act - We struggle with trying to fill our days, keeping mindlessly busy, trying to stop the mental cycle of anxiety and stress, holding our collective breath as we wait for our soldiers to come home.

    The Deployment Balancing Act – Day of the Deployed

    October 26, 2016
    I was crying, running on vapors, trying to do it all myself. Why do I keep forgetting I didn't get this far alone? I need Him to bloom in any season.

    Bloom in Any Season

    November 23, 2015
    Sometimes, military life hurts. I've cried my share of tears. But today, it wasn't my heart that was broken & I needed to help my daughter know where to take her hurts. #MilitaryLife #ArmyWifeLife #PCS #ChristianMom #VeteranWife #ArmyLife #PCSSeason #ChristianBlogger #HisGraceGirls #ChristianParenting #Parenting #militarymom #ArmyBrats

    Helping Your Kids When Military Life Hurts

    August 25, 2019
  • Book Reviews,  Faith based living

    How to Defeat Female Body Image Issues for Women of Faith

    May 17, 2020 /

    Defeating female body image issues meant getting real about the root of those issues. First, separate the facts about female body image issues from the lies. Lie #1 – My life will be better when I fix my body. I would be happier if I were thin. People would like me better if I was skinnier. Having a better body will improve my marriage. I’ll have more self-esteem if I look thin and toned. If my body looked better, I wouldn’t have any issues, right? I was so wrong. Nothing I did to improve my appearance solved any other problems I had in my life. I still had to learn…

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    Is there really anything new to learn about Jesus? Yes! I just read a book that profoundly added to my love and awe of Christ, and it's worth sharing! #Christianity #Apologetics #TooGoodtoBeFalse #Faith #BestBooks #ChristianBooks #FaithBooks #BookReviews #ChristianParents #ChristianWomen

    Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus?

    July 31, 2020
    How do you do friendship in the hard places of life and make every moment count? Just show up, an incredible story of faith and friendship and grace.

    Handling Hard in Friendship: Just Show Up

    January 6, 2016
    Do you know how to talk to kids about Jesus to help them build a solid foundation for faith? Let me share how to arm your kids with the truth about Jesus. #ChristianParent #ChristianMom #Apologetics #Faith #Parenting #BookReviews #ChristianBookReviews #TalkingWithYourKidsAboutJesus

    How to Talk with Kids about Jesus

    March 5, 2020
  • Book Reviews,  Faith based living

    Do you Dare to Really Know Jesus?

    July 9, 2019 /

    If you would consider to dare to know Jesus, I invite you to give Him some serious thought today. Whether you’re a Christian or not, you probably claim to know Jesus, at least in broad strokes. In fact, worldwide, no one person has influenced history more than Jesus. The way we even measure history has been using His birth since A.D. 532. While using Before Christ has become less politically correct, the era still changes approximately at His birth. But which Jesus do you know? There is only one historical Jesus in reality, but how He is painted, described, even taught can vary wildly. And sadly, not even every person…

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    How to Defeat Female Body Image Issues for Women of Faith

    May 17, 2020
    Is there really anything new to learn about Jesus? Yes! I just read a book that profoundly added to my love and awe of Christ, and it's worth sharing! #Christianity #Apologetics #TooGoodtoBeFalse #Faith #BestBooks #ChristianBooks #FaithBooks #BookReviews #ChristianParents #ChristianWomen

    Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus?

    July 31, 2020
    How do you do friendship in the hard places of life and make every moment count? Just show up, an incredible story of faith and friendship and grace.

    Handling Hard in Friendship: Just Show Up

    January 6, 2016
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