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  • Is There Really Anything New to Learn About Jesus? July 31, 2020
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  • A better set of rules for daughters, centered on Jesus, just like you hope her life will be. #rulesfordaughters #ChristianMom #ChristianParenting #MomLife #ChristianWoman #MothersDaughters
    Faith based living,  Godly Parenting

    The Best Christian Rules to Teach your Daughter

    June 21, 2019 /

    Have you read the rules to teach your daughter going around Facebook? I’ve seen that heart-warming, feel-good list a few times, but never read it carefully. It always seemed like an empowering, you go girl kind of list. Thumbs up, heart it and move on. But when I slowed down to actually read it, I was surprised by how many of those rules don’t line up with how God instructs us to live. In fact, following some of these rules led me down some paths that I don’t want my daughter to walk. I would rather her skip those portions of my coming of age if possible. Seriously, if I…

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    Have you ever wondered why Jesus washed the feet of Judas? What message was Jesus communicating to him and to us? Can we learn something from this story?

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    April 28, 2019
    My father's life and personality has been my strongest influence. I find joy and sorrow in every visit as I sit surrounded by the bones of my father's life.

    Joy and Sorrow: the Bones of My Father’s Life

    April 26, 2016

    Can You Really Know God’s Will for Your Life?

    September 2, 2019
  • What's the best Father's Day gift for your husband? A tie? A grill? A fishing trip? Nope, and it's free. But might be the most important gift you can give him this Father's Day and every day. #FathersDay #DadsMatter #LoveandRespect #Marriage #Fathers
    Holidays,  Marriage

    The Best Father’s Day Gift for Your Husband

    June 15, 2019 /

    Is there a best Father’s Day gift for your husband? What is it? A tie? A grill? A fishing trip with his best friends? Nope, the best Father’s Day gift for your husband isn’t a thing. Woo hoo! You mean the best gift I can give my husband on Sunday is free??? Yep, it’s an attitude and you don’t have to wait for Father’s Day either. My husband really enjoys having nice grill tools and quality fishing gear. He loves a new graphic-t or pair of sturdy hiking boots. This CHiPs shirt is such a favorite, that when he stains one, I have to buy him another. But all those…

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    Going without complaining has been my annual November challenge the past few years. Nothing sets my heart on thankfulness more than going without complaining.

    Will you take the BOLD 30 days without complaining challenge?

    November 1, 2017
    Looking for cute Thanksgiving Decorations, but not finding much left on the shelves? Don't Stress - Here are some of my favorite ideas & where to find them! 

    Are you looking for cute Thanksgiving Decorations?

    October 29, 2017

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  • Faith based living

    Do I have to go to church to be a Christian?

    June 8, 2019 /

    Do I HAVE to go to church to be a Christian? The weekend is finally here, but instead of resting, I hop on my to-do list and finish Saturday feeling accomplished and exhausted. But, as I set my alarm for the morning, sometimes, I’m tempted not to rise and shine. Can’t I give God the glory, glory from home? Is worshipping from home a legitimate choice? Am I still a Christian if I don’t go to church? Going to church is not a part of salvation. When we add requirements to salvation or Christianity that Jesus did not, we add burdens and weights to the light yoke of Jesus. “Going…

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    Watching a tantrum is mortifying as a parent. We feel judged, helpless, embarrassed. But that day, in this EPIC tantrum, I realized I could be a better parent.

    How an Epic Tantrum Changed my Parenting Perspective

    August 29, 2016
    Giveaway!!! Ever felt doubt creep into the corners of your mind? Tried the mental equivalent of plugging your ears? Help My Unbelief can add tools to your faith arsenal.

    Fighting Doubt: A Review of Help My Unbelief and GIVEAWAY

    April 14, 2016
    Were you encouraged and inspired by "Not a Fan"? If so, The End of Me by Kyle Idleman will bring Jesus' teachings to life in a real way we can live today. Heaven Not Harvard

    A Review – The End of Me by Kyle Idleman

    October 3, 2015
  • Is a screen free summer something you want for your kids, but you don't have the time or energy to go full crunchy mama? Use these simple strategies to keep kids entertained without a screen! #ScreenFree #Parenting #MomBlog #ChristianParenting #MomLife
    Godly Parenting,  Parenting

    Help your Kids have a more Screen Free Summer

    May 28, 2019 /

    Is a screen free summer something you really want for your children, but you don’t have the time or energy to go full crunchy mama? For my family, screen free is probably not going to happen. But when our pediatrician asked about her daily screen time, I realized how digital this generation is. According to CBS News, kids and teens spend more than 7 hours a day in front of a screen. Our doctor was shocked when I mentioned that my 9 year old daughter generally gets less than 1 hour of screen time per day outside of family viewing. She may get more here and there. Today we’re under…

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    Dear Birthmom, an Honest Letter from my Side of Adoption

    November 22, 2014
    Are you weary, momma? I'm so weary my weary is weary. I can't even think in complete sentences. How do we stay faithful in Christ when we're this exhausted?

    What to do when We are Weary

    February 22, 2016
    Raising children is harder than I'd ever imagined. She has to learn how to live independently & face any challenges. She has to know to always seek the Son.

    Planting Sunflowers: Raising Children to Seek the Son

    September 23, 2014
  • Do you need some tangible ways to better pray for your children? Some ideas to be more intentional with daily prayer or some ideas of things to pray? Learn how I made prayer a bigger part of my parenting. #ChristianParenting #Parenting #Prayer #PrayerLife #ChristianWoman #MomLife #ChristianBlogger #Discipleship #ChristianMom #IntentionalParenting
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    How to Better Pray for Your Children

    May 23, 2019 /

    Of course, you want to pray for your children. But maybe, you struggle with being as intentional about it as you want to be. I found some ideas that help me better pray for my child. Hopefully, these ideas will help you, too. I made praying a bigger part of my life a few years ago, but deliberately am trying to grow in this area daily. The more I make prayer a dedicated part of my life, the more I’ve seen God answer my prayers. I’ve spent years writing down every prayer for my husband or keeping a prayer journal of all the prayer requests I have. But this year,…

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    What does sorry mean? What does repentance and contrition look like? Are you Sorry, Not Sorry? HeavenNotHarvard.com

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    October 24, 2014
    How can I explain senseless violence to my child? It's too heartbreaking to imagine, but my daughter looks to me for answers and comfort in an uncertain world.

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