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    Marriage

    The Best Christian Guide for Fair Fighting in Marriage

    June 11, 2020 /

    Need some strategies for fair fighting in marriage? You’re not alone. Fair fighting takes practice in learning to communicate well and graciously handle conflicts. We sometimes forget we need to practice forgiveness and grace the most is at home. We let down our guard and raise our expectations with our families, which is a recipe for disaster. Marriage can bring out the best in us, but also our worst. We’re living in close quarters with another sinner. Our flaws and quirks are going to bump elbows sometimes. Sometimes, those elbows are going to hit sensitive places and arguments start. For me, it’s been a real work of the Holy Spirit…

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    How can you save your marriage when war comes home? It's a journey of patience and grace with a whole lot of Jesus filling in the empty spaces.

    How to Save your Marriage When War Comes Home

    January 28, 2016
    Divorce him for dishes by the sink? He leaves his dirty dishes sometimes & doesn't pick up his underwear. He thinks dusting is a waste of time. But divorce? #Marriage #Christianity #Divorce #ChristianWoman #MarriageMatters

    Divorce him for the Dishes by the Sink?

    January 24, 2016
    Can I just have a minute to talk to you about the kind of love I hope you have today, that I hope you have everyday. Do you know how to have an abiding love?

    Do you know how to have an Abiding Love?

    June 14, 2016
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    Learn How to Love Your Husband: the Key is Secret Service

    June 2, 2020 /

    Learning how to love your husband can be as simple as secret service. It was the key to unlocking my bitter, angry heart and learning to love my husband again, which, in turn, saved our marriage. What I really needed to learn was how to love your husband according to the Bible! We still really loved each other, but something was very broken. My husband was angry all the time. I was bitter. We could barely talk about anything without bickering, so we didn’t. I did my thing. He did his. We slept in the same bed, but we weren’t any kind of team. (keep reading for how dirty underwear…

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    Red, white & blue are the colors of the day. Flags will wave more today on American soil than any other day of the year. And every country music station will be streaming "I'm proud to be an American."

    The Red, White & Blue

    July 4, 2016
    Check out this week's installment of Ask Away Thursday - one question, LOTS of answers!

    Which job is right for me? Ask Away Thursday

    March 17, 2016

    Marriage Advice I Wish I Had 10 years ago

    November 12, 2016
  • Look at your birthday differently this year. Instead of expecting the perfect gift, BE the best birthday gift! Refocus your new year on Christ. #BestBirthdayGift #ChristianBlogger #FaithBasedLiving #ChristianWoman
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    Be Your Best Birthday Gift This Year

    August 21, 2019 /

    Do you want to know what my best birthday gift was this year? It was ME! Let me explain. I love my birthday. Getting one day that is all about me is my jam. But God has really spent the last few years convicting me of how selfish this attitude can be. Can you imagine Peter or Paul expecting a birthday gift or celebrations? Don’t get me wrong, I still avoided most of the housework, stayed in my pajamas a long time, relished a quiet workout in the pool, and enjoyed some fun experiences with friends and family. But I tried my best not to let my desire to enjoy…

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    Stop making resolutions that promise worldly perfection. Try one promising holiness and eternal perfection. Follow a Bible reading plan in the new year! #NewYearsResolutions #BibleReadingPlan #ChristianWoman #ChristianLiving #FaithBasedLiving

    Why Follow a Bible Reading Plan in the New Year

    December 30, 2019
    My 20s? Looking back twenty years on who I was at 25 and who I wish I had been. What would I do differently? Everything! and nothing. . .

    Contemplating my 20s – What I would do differently?

    July 2, 2016
    How do we make the Bible kid-friendly so it becomes central in the lives of our children and home in a meaningful way that brings scriptures to life?

    Easy Ways to Make the Bible Kid Friendly

    May 12, 2016
  • What's the best Father's Day gift for your husband? A tie? A grill? A fishing trip? Nope, and it's free. But might be the most important gift you can give him this Father's Day and every day. #FathersDay #DadsMatter #LoveandRespect #Marriage #Fathers
    Holidays,  Marriage

    The Best Father’s Day Gift for Your Husband

    June 15, 2019 /

    Is there a best Father’s Day gift for your husband? What is it? A tie? A grill? A fishing trip with his best friends? Nope, the best Father’s Day gift for your husband isn’t a thing. Woo hoo! You mean the best gift I can give my husband on Sunday is free??? Yep, it’s an attitude and you don’t have to wait for Father’s Day either. My husband really enjoys having nice grill tools and quality fishing gear. He loves a new graphic-t or pair of sturdy hiking boots. This CHiPs shirt is such a favorite, that when he stains one, I have to buy him another. But all those…

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    Thanksgiving Attitude – More than a Day

    November 26, 2015

    Why I Disappointed my Daughter for Christmas

    December 30, 2015
    What is the benefit of observing Lent as a Christian? Is it something required of us or is it something we do because of how God uses it FOR us?

    Why Should You Give Up Something for Lent?

    March 4, 2019
  • Sharing my Father's Day Gift Guide! I want him to know I see the hard work he does without fanfare or thanks & budget minded mamas, these are $25 or less!
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    My Father’s Day Gift Guide for Budget Minded Mamas

    May 31, 2017 /

    I’m sharing my Father’s day gift guide. Really, I was just shopping but found some great things, so I wanted to share! My husband has been so great to me during some really difficult years. I really want him to know I see him: the hours, the hard work, the little things he does without fanfare or expecting thanks. Yet, I need to be frugal while showing my husband I appreciate him. So, all these gifts are under $40 and most are $25 or less! One way I show my appreciation is by paying attention to little things he needs. On a regular basis, I replace his socks, toothpaste, and favorite…

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    Cyber Monday is HERE!!! You can keep all the craziness of Black Friday! Give me my laptop and credit card. Here are my choices for online shopping today!

    My Cyber Monday Gift Guide

    November 27, 2017
    What is the best way to explain Easter to a kindergartner to help her understand the depth of Christ's sacrifice for us? #ChristianParenting #Easter #Christianliving #Faith #Holidays #ChristianHolidays

    The Best Way to Explain Easter to a Kindergartner

    March 26, 2016
    What is the benefit of observing Lent as a Christian? Is it something required of us or is it something we do because of how God uses it FOR us?

    Why Should You Give Up Something for Lent?

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